Any family member having a problem with a ceremonial aspect of the wedding?
RGEC47
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Any family member having a problem with a ceremonial aspect of the wedding?
For example, my mom is not to thrilled about the Candle Lighting ceremony. She'll do it but she is definitely letting me know that she does not like the idea.
She never heard of it and said to me: You and your american customs?
Not really sure what she meant by that. Is anyone having a siilar problem?
latinaj
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me
my mom has no idea...if it were up to her, we would have someone roll up w/their llama and some girls dancing and someone w/their zampolla
MrsC2010
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fh's family is not thrilled that its not at a church but they have accepted it by now.
marinai7
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My family hasn't mentioned anything but we're not Catholic and FH and I are getting married at a Catholic church b/c FH is and we are going to raise our children Catholic.
Ray8183
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My mom keep saying, 'Okay, it's your wedding.'
RGEC47
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me
my mom has no idea...if it were up to her, we would have someone roll up w/their llama and some girls dancing and someone w/their zampolla
I can just picture 'las cholitas' hopping around.
latinaj
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Posted by RGEC47
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me
my mom has no idea...if it were up to her, we would have someone roll up w/their llama and some girls dancing and someone w/their zampolla
I can just picture 'las cholitas' hopping around.
MikesBride2B
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I'm sure FMIL has a lot to say about her Presbyterian son having a mostly Jewish wedding and being married by a Rabbi....but she can shove it up her Ohio asssss.
kris_gets_hitched
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FMIL doesn't know anything about it; if she did, she would have a problem, that's for sure.
But since she doesn't know and lost her priviledge to information about our wedding a LONG time ago (and I told her that), she has no problems with it.
regy_k
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my mom is VERY surprised at how religious I want the ceremony to be. actually most ppl are very surprised and FSIL had something to say about it, knowing nothing about it of course
who cares honestly? I just said to all who had something to say about it 'that is how I want it' that was the end of that convo
Diana508
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Posted by latinaj
Posted by RGEC47
Posted by latinaj
me
my mom has no idea...if it were up to her, we would have someone roll up w/their llama and some girls dancing and someone w/their zampolla
I can just picture 'las cholitas' hopping around.
I just got back from Peru 2 weeks ago!!
My FMIL made a comment about my first dance being in Spanish. She asked if my dad spoke English and I said yes..so she asked why if he wanted a spanish song. Actually, it was me.
WeddingGem
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Not really a problem but my sister made fun of me and my 'hippie' wedding because we're doing a sand ceremony!!
allornil
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Posted by Diana508
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Posted by RGEC47
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me
my mom has no idea...if it were up to her, we would have someone roll up w/their llama and some girls dancing and someone w/their zampolla
I can just picture 'las cholitas' hopping around.
I just got back from Peru 2 weeks ago!!
My FMIL made a comment about my first dance being in Spanish. She asked if my dad spoke English and I said yes..so she asked why if he wanted a spanish song. Actually, it was me.
wow thats really rude!!! lol
MY FH is Latin and I'm wondering how many salsa etc songs to play. My Jewish family's gonna be like huh? lol
Diana508
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Posted by latinaj
me
my mom has no idea...if it were up to her, we would have someone roll up w/their llama and some girls dancing and someone w/their zampolla
I can just picture 'las cholitas' hopping around.
I just got back from Peru 2 weeks ago!!
My FMIL made a comment about my first dance being in Spanish. She asked if my dad spoke English and I said yes..so she asked why if he wanted a spanish song. Actually, it was me.
wow thats really rude!!! lol
MY FH is Latin and I'm wondering how many salsa etc songs to play. My Jewish family's gonna be like huh? lol
FH is Italian and I feel like his family we say the same, but I also want my family to have a good time. I can't forget my culture.
Cookie De La Devine
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For this reason Im not telling either parents about the ceremony part, they will see whats going on when everyone else will. It might be rude but Its my vows I'll be as witchy, hippy, religous, crazy as FH will let me ! Less they know the less some people know- the better
Melvin1297
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Posted by MrsC2010
fh's family is not thrilled that its not at a church but they have accepted it by now.
