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Any family members not attending your wedding?

mosh913 Posted:

Any family members not attending your wedding?

Just wondering. I don't think my uncle will come in from California, my step grandmother from Florida, and a few others. Are we the only ones?

ETA: 2 of my good friends are going to be on their honeymoons
dino1109 Posted:

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Definitely not! Most of mine are witht he exception of an uncle from FL- I think that is it- but FH has tons of family in HI (uincluding his parents) most are not coming with the exception of 3, I think...

mosh913 Posted:

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That's cool, that's not making me feel any better though
Julestrd Posted:

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Most of my family either lives in TX, NM or Mexico so other than immediate family and some aunts and uncles the rest aren't coming. Like another bride said mine side will be bare
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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I can make you feel better.... my dad told fh that he might not be coming!!! He also wont give me a list from his side of the family so I dont know if my aunt and uncle on his side will come... or my own cousins!!

lilmrs Posted:

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my godmother, her husband and thier two kids (who live on Long Island) didn't come...mainly because she is a biatch. Darren's grandfather didn't make it because he drank too much at the RD and slipped in the middle of the night cracking his head on his night table and going to the ER for stiches.

Other than that I think all close family memebers came.
bethsiar Posted:

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my godmother, her husband and thier two kids (who live on Long Island) didn't come...mainly because she is a biatch.



OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MINE TOO! Except her 3 biatch daughters!


F*ck them I didnt want them there anyway!!!! :)
mosh913 Posted:

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lol...that's the attitude that I'm developing.
ikasse02 Posted:

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Several of my family members are boycotting for religious reasons. It doesn't bother me one bit. We agree to disagree silently. No conflicts.

Don't be offended...things happen.
mosh913 Posted:

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I'm not offended, I just want to make my room minimum
AJsMommy122 Posted:

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Posted by mosh913

I'm not offended, I just want to make my room minimum



same here! lol
lilmrs Posted:

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The way I looked at it...as long as I was fairly close to my minimum I was good. I thought to myself who cares about hitting it, if I am a little short I will ask them to throw something in. I was under my minimum and I did get something extra.

tracyg Posted:

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A LOT of my family members aren't coming... and we are NOT happy.

my stepaunt and family
step uncle and family
6 out of 10 of my cousins
FH's grandparents MAY NOT (very sore subject)
Fh's only 2 cousins aren't
1 aunt, 2 uncles

i think thats it...
Summerbride04 Posted:

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My grandparents and my FH's grandmother probably won't be coming mainly because they live in florida and aren't well enough to travel
LIJuneBride Posted:

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Lots of my family won't be coming (didn't get their responses yet but I basically know they won't) - they're from out of state and won't travel I'm sure.

Cousin and wife from Georgia
Cousin and husband from North Carolina
Cousin and husband from CA
Cousin from upstate (he doesn't speak to the family anymore)
One of FH's cousins might have to work and he has four or five that are out of state and might not come.

Don't worry - I think it's typical.
July2004Bride Posted:

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FH's brother isn't coming to the wedding!
Monkeybride Posted:

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Let's see....
NOT inviting any paternal family members except my dad and he 'doesn't know if he can make it.' OK what kind of dad says that.

I really don't know about my family in Philadelphia. They will all be invited and it's really just a 2&1/2 hour trip but I don't know how many cousins or 'distant' type relatives will make.

I will try not to have hurt feelings and keep that attitude that the people who care and support us will be there.

Just hope we make our minimum.
butterfly20 Posted:

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our oot family thats over 1 hour away probably will not be coming..

mosh913 Posted:

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Posted by July2004Bride

FH's brother isn't coming to the wedding!




Yeah, mine neither. He's going to regret that!
soon2bmrs2004 Posted:

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I haven't sent out invites yet, but I already know of one person who will no be making it:
My Mother- I haven't spoken to her since I am 16 and I am 23 now. I have never had a close relationship with her. She just decided one day not to call my brother or I anymore and we haven't spoken since. So needless to say she is not invited and will not be coming of her whole side of the family.

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