Any other 10/30 brides?

Original post by laudipop

May 14, 2004 03:47 AM

Who are my date twins?

laudipop Posted: Jul 27, 2004 12:00 PM

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My motto lately is if it brings me piece of mind, the extra costs are worth it!!

I know, I'm starting to think that, too! But then I wonder if I'm just being a big baby about it all. When we first got engaged, I thought I would make my friend be our unofficial coordinator like your FH's cousin (we call her 'rent-a-*****' because she's so good at dealing with vendors, customer service, etc.) But then she went a got a full-time job! Now she has no time to do anything else.

Day-of coordinators seem to be between $500-$1000.

Anyone else feel like the value you put on money has gotten skewed since you started planning your wedding?

ETA: Hey, Jen, are you guys going to use your home printer or take stuff to Kinkos?

jen22 Posted: Jul 27, 2004 01:17 PM

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We are going to print everything ourselves. Luckily my FH is great with computers (unlike myself), and he is in graphic design so he has the good programs to do it on.

Your view on money when planning a wedding becomes ridiculously skewed!!! Especially when it makes your life easier!

belleboyd Posted: Jul 28, 2004 10:57 AM

What I did today:

Today I ----

Booked the honeymoon.
8days in PR w/ 4 day cruise.

AND

Bought the rings:

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laudipop Posted: Jul 28, 2004 11:06 AM

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Wow, those rings are beautiful!! So unique.

Congrats!

lorsin Posted: Jul 28, 2004 11:41 AM

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Those are great rings!

Just got a call from my invitation place - they will be here next week!!

Made up most of my program on the computer last night. Waiting on a couple things from the church to finish finish, but the design and template are done.

Slooooowly getting back to planning.

laudipop Posted: Jul 29, 2004 03:40 AM

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BTW, Lorsin, your dog is so cute!

ETA: Oh, yeah, and good for you for getting so much of the program done! I haven't even started that yet.

lorsin Posted: Jul 29, 2004 08:52 AM

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Thanks!! He's an 86 pound monster now!! That pic was when he was only 6 months.

I wish he were well behaved enough to be in the wedding, but we're going to take pics with him in between (with a training collar and a very strong leash - LOL).

Programs are almost the only thing I can work on right now, so I took a shot at them.

I'm feeling powerless and that stupid count down calendar makes me crazy!! How can there only be 93 days left!?!?!

BCTM33 Posted: Jul 29, 2004 09:21 AM

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Okay girls! I'm at 3 months today and mostt of you will be tomorrow - anyone else getting a little stressed?

We went over the budget last night and we aren't doing too bad....

jen22 Posted: Jul 29, 2004 04:18 PM

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Anyone else starting to freak out?!?!?!

I am sitting at work and just realized that with everything else going on FH and I do not have that much time to get everything done.

I think I need a weekend of tearing through my list!!!!

BCTM33 Posted: Jul 30, 2004 09:58 AM

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I really need one of those weekends but we have some many things coming up - birthday parties, housewarmings, family reunions, it never ends!! It's great that we have all these fun things to do but I need to get some of our stuff done!

laudipop Posted: Jul 30, 2004 11:43 AM

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OMG, I'm at 3 months! I think I have to go lie down.

lorsin Posted: Jul 30, 2004 12:15 PM

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Seriously?!?! 3 months?!?!?

The GOOD News:

Fed Ex just sent me confirmation that my invites will be in my eager little hands on the 5th.

Finished the whole program design (minus some confirmations from the pastor).

Got our guest book finished (used Ofoto to create a photo book with pics of us and made every other page blank for signing) It only cost $30 and I love it!!

The BAD News:

Tried on a billion pairs of shoes and can't find one pair I like!!

No dress yet. Or swatch. So therefore, no accessories.

FMIL is waffling on the RD, not sure where she wants to have it now. grrrr.

I'm beginning to enter hysteria phase. People ask me how it's going and I just start to laugh. No idea why. Anyone else?

jen22 Posted: Jul 30, 2004 04:16 PM

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Yup. Hit hysteria yesterday when looked at the number of weekends left (I can not get anything done during the week), and subtracted the number of weekends we are busy. Its crazy!!!

I think we will all be fine though!

Yay on the guest book, program & invites Lorsin!!!

I HAVE to get shoes for my first fitting and do not know what I want. Thats my big thing right now. We are also meeting with the church weddng planner tomorrow to go over the details (vows, hymms, etc). So hopefully we will be able to start our programs soon!

laudipop Posted: Jul 30, 2004 06:05 PM

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What truly makes me hysterical is when people act as if there's no reason to be worried or stressed--as if there's plenty of time and not much to do. Makes me crazy.

I finally got a swatch of my dress yesterday, but they still have no idea when the dress will be in. I read in lots of the bridal magazines that they're supposed to have a confirmed shipping date for the dress like 3 months before it's shipped. Is that a myth? The ladies at my salon all look at me like I'm nuts when I ask for a shipping date.

When's your first fitting, Jen?