anybody fighting?

we are fighting BADLY!

Maybe we are both so stressed...9 days away after all...any Nov. brides having this problem?

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I dont know this first hand but I would think it is normal. The stress of the day, the pressure of putting it all together, all the money being laid out. Try not to sweat it and remember this day is all about the LOVE you have for one another!

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YES almost everyday since our honeymoon....I'm hoping it's just growing pains....9 days to go, wow! You and he need to sit down together and agree to stop arguing PLEASE believe me, this is such a SPECIAL time, enjoy it.....savor every day!

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I hear this ALOT, I think the stress just gets to both parties, and baam !!!!!!!!!!! Fight !!!!!!
I'm sure it will pass. . .

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We were like that right before the wedding too. I think it's normal - stress, anxiety and emotions are at such a level something has to give.

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YES, since last week. About everything and nothing. Also, I just seem to cry for no reason at random times. I can't take it!!!!! I have 16 days to go.... I hope it doesn't get worse!!!!

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So far no fighting but I feel like crying all the time and we have 5 weeks left!!!

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I still have 7 months to go and FH gets on my nerves periodically. I get annoyed sometimes with him and the way he doesnt even seem to realize and be thankful for how much work I put into this wedding, all he does is complain about me being online too much
I'm afraid to see how we will be when we only have a few weeks to go like you all.
Well, I guess we just have to grin and bear it, it's almost over !!!!!

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Lizlen, sounds as if you are doing all the legwork like myself.

I did have a minor disagreement with my FI yesterday about going to meet with DJ's and Photagraphers. I really want to get these booked , and he wants to wait a couple of months.

From what I hear these disagreements are normal and will pass.

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big one like a week before!!
its stress!!

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Oh yes sweetie, we HAVE!!!! We have added pressure though because we are paying the wedding ourselves AND buying a home. It's VERY stressful and we can't wait til it's all over and we can focus on the most important thing........the marriage

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I'm afraid!!!! We have 10 months left, and haven't had a fight yet.....I don't want to start

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YES!!! I think we almost hated each other right before our wedding! Our fights were about anything and everything too! It's very stressful, $$, planning, yikes!! We lived together and I think that makes it worse in terms of fighting b/c you never really have a break from it all. You spend all day planning and chatting about it here, and then you go home and have to talk to him about the plans and you never have fun time!! My husband used to say, 'I can't wait to get married so we can date again!'
I think my engagement was the most stressful time of my life!!
But don't worry, once it's over it gets better, at least for us it has! We had a great time on our honeymoon and I feel like I did when we first stared dating.....butterflies! It's great!

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We were bickering last weekend. We've also both had days where we couldn't get rid of headaches.
Its a very stressful time. There's so much running around to do lately and so much money going out. Its enough to make anyone sick.Hang in there.Its almost here.

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Dont feel alone! We have 5 1/2 months to go, and the planning is stressing us out. We fight over nothing! But I think it is normal. Hang in there!