Anybody here?

I'm meeting with one of my BMs on Saturday. We haven't spoken since the wedding. (Well, she did send me that nasty email right after I got back from the honeymoon)

There's a lot of stuff that I want to get off my chest, that I am still very upset about. But, ultimately, I do want to try to rebuild the relationship.

don't know if I should just ignore it and be happy that we're speaking, or briefly mention these things, or really pour it all out...(I'm worried that if I REALLY bring it ALL up, I'm going to end up getting very angry, and that would probably shut down the whole conversation)

I think if you can have a conversation about how you felt when she behaved that way, then ok. You got to be careful not to make it an interrogation or attack her. And I would bring it up as a way to resolve it and not open it.

But if you are not capable of acting rationally, then I would forget it.

good point! the only saving grace here is that she was not the instigator of 99 % of the things that went wrong.

I just can't help but thinking, WHY did she go along with all of it...

I guess I will start thinking of some word tracks to use before I even begin the conversation...

Also, I do have photos and video footage of many of the things that I am upset about, but I know that showing that stuff to her would probably be the wrong thing to do...

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Posted by suven


Also, I do have photos and video footage of many of the things that I am upset about, but I know that showing that stuff to her would probably be the wrong thing to do...

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I would definitely say so!

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Posted by am470

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Posted by suven


Also, I do have photos and video footage of many of the things that I am upset about, but I know that showing that stuff to her would probably be the wrong thing to do...

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I would definitely say so!

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Yeah, I figured

thanks!

good night!