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Anybody NOT going on their honeymoon right after their wedding?

larryswife2be Posted:

Anybody NOT going on their honeymoon right after their wedding?

I think it may be better if we waited a month or two to go on ours, because I will be finishing up my Master's degree but I wanted to know what everyone else thought.

jennbaby Posted:

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do whats best for you.
groovypeg Posted:

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we might. we are getting married on 11/21/04 and b/c i am a teacher, i am having a difficult time getting my boss to approve time off! she basically told me that i should get married in june b/c thats when we have vacation (i work in a 12 month program). anyhoo, i may be able to take a short honeymoon, but odds are we may wait until i have more time off!

larryswife2be Posted:

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How ironic!!! I will be student teaching during this time, which is the last step before I get my master's degree.

August2004 Posted:

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I say go for the honeymoon right after the wedding. It will give you a nice brether afterwards. Even if you just get away for a few days until you can do something longer. I am student teaching the fall after my wedding which is why I was limited to summer months for my wedding.

juju Posted:

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I'd say go after you completed your Master's program! YOu'll mind will be at ease. Just make sure you book it before you finish your program so that it will not be pushed back any further! How exciting! Congrats!

allure Posted:

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I would wait also and finish school
Just another reason to celebrate and feel secure about finishing school
Lots Of Luck to you
alixgirl Posted:

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Can u take a small weekend trip and then take a larger one after u graduate?

princess99 Posted:

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My Fh is a teacher we r taking a mini moon and then going to Tahiti over the summer. This way at least we have something to look forward to after the wedding is over. I say do what is best for you, this is what worked out for us.

Nora101004 Posted:

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Planning a wedding is so stressful, if you can't get the time off after the wedding, maybe you can take a day or 2 and just go away to a Bed and Breakfast in Vermont or something. Just to relax and regroup.

Good luck with school and the planning.
km04 Posted:

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I'm a teacher and my wedding date is June 11, which is a friday. I'm taking off thursday and friday (of course!), but I'll be back to work on monday. We're going on our honeymoon about a month later in july, first of all because I can't take off the rest of june, and also because the cruise we are going on is on a new ship and it doesn't start sailing til July 4. I don't think it's a big deal not to go on your honeymoon right away. You have to do whats convenient for you.

kristenc77 Posted:

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Another teacher here who can't take time off from work. We are going to take a mini moon for a few days over the Christmas break and then take our real hm in Jamaica over the Easter break. I think that gives us something to look forward to.

Kelly9904 Posted:

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My MOH got married in May but didnt take her honeymoon until August! She loved that decision because before teh wedding she could really focus on the wedding because all they did was book the plane and the hotels and then after she still had something fun to look forward to and she really had the time to plan exactly what she wanted to do on her HM!
However after the wedding they did take an additional 2 days off just they could spend a few days lounging with one another as Husband and Wife!

I think as long as you and FI are good with it then there is not reason not to wait!
Julybaby Posted:

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I agree with most of the replys. If you can go away, even overnight, do it. Finishing up a master's is stressful, especially when you will be doing your student teaching (been there, done that), so focus on that. I know of teachers who got married during the school year and went on their honeymoon in the summer, so it's not that unusual. Besides, by waiting a month or two, you are extending your whole wedding experience, which is going to be great!

kdelace Posted:

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I am a teacher also.. We are getting married in Feb b/c we have a weeks break but that weekend before vacation was booked so we are gettig married the weekend before.. I will take the Fri and Monday after my wedding off- im getting married on a Sat.. go back to school (ugh) for 3 days. then we leave Sat the 14th for a week in Aruba. Since we have a summer vaca thats is when we will plan a longer trip. We decided to get married in feb b/c it is less expensive then the summer. It all depends how you feel. If you feel like going away for a week of two weeks is too long, go on a long weekend and then plan for one a little bit later. Whatever works for you!

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