Anyone else feel like this?

Anyone else feel like this?

I am extremely cranky and irritable. Whenever it comes to talking about the wedding w anyone (mom, fmil, friends, fh) I am just a snot about it. I don't know what happened. I was gung ho about it and now...

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i feel the same way... nothing as far as the planning goes is easy for me.. there is always something going wrong.

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i was that way for a few months before. I kept getting so aggrevated and didn't want to hear anything because it was so close, I didn't want to second guess!
I also had nice little panic attacks.
It will pass, you know what you have done and whats ahead. You'll be OK and definately not alone!

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Thankfully you all understand. Funny thing is all I have left is to get two more gift cert and pay our RH. But the money is there for everything so what is wrong w me??? I just feel not happy???? So weird.

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I have 8 days to go and the last few days i have been getting alittle snippy with FH (and I really don't understand it) he has been nothing but nice and helpfull..........

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I feel that way too but I think it's less wedding planning-related and more related to all the other stuff in my life that has to be taken care of before we can leave for our wedding and HM. We're OOT so we have to pack EVERYTHING and haul it to NY in a little over a week. I'm going to be out of work for 3 weeks so I have to leave instructions for a lot of things so my coworkers (bless 'em!!) can take care of stuff while I'm gone. I have to clean my house because we have people staying in it while we're away. And I'm super stressed about forgetting stuff when we leave the house cuz there's kind of no turning back once we drive home.

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Ohhh - I'm right with you ladies...I try so hard not to be crazy, but I got so used to people offering up their unsolicited & persistant (you're-an-idiot-for-doing-it-otherwise) advice that I unknowingly started snipping & yelling at people before they even had the opportunity to finish their sentances. It got exhausting, though, so now I'm in 'I no longer care about anything' mode and I'm a lot more agreeable...people no longer look frightened when bringing up the plans to me anymore

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These 'symptoms' if you will are sooooooooo totally normal, especially at your stage in the planning! I was a total emotional basket case the last 2 weeks before my wedding. My poor DH! I didn't know what was wrong with me. I was feeling so overwhelmed and even depressed, I'd cry about everything little thing and I felt so guilty for not being excited about the wedding! I just wanted it all over with.
But the day of my wedding, COMPLETELY different! Yes I had butterflies, but I was in no way the emotional wreck I had been the weeks leading up to that day!! It's normal to feel the way you do!

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Thanks lools for saying that.... I am so glad not alone

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Posted by leafgirl

Thanks lools for saying that.... I am so glad not alone

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no problemmo! I totally understand what you're going through! It's still fresh for me!

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i, too, have been victim of this so called irritability! at times i drive my FH nuts ... he's always telling me to stop stressing and to relax, taking it one day at a time. how can i do that if i keep getting questions from everyone about everything. plus, how is it possible to 'please' everyone?? i thought it was my wedding. when do i get a say??? ggrrrrr....................

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Posted by magbride

Sometimes....I'm usually gung-ho, but occasionally even I get tired of hearing myself talk about it. Someone once posted that 'how are the wedding plans?' becomes a stand in for talk about the weather.
The other thing that irks me is 'Are you all done?' NO! People have been asking me that since before the one month mark. I know they don't mean anything, but it totally stresses me out.
This week I was just cranky in general...PMS! This morning I almost took FH's head off and it wasn't even wedding related. I think it's all just the jumble of many emotions, sprinkled with nerves and stress.
I'm sure as you cross things off the list, you'll get back to gung-ho-ness. My coworker just got married and was stressed leading up to it. The day of she said she couldn't have been in a better mood.

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I am soooo with you... I am just so over it all.....like I want it to be done with and be on my HM relaxing

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I totally understand. I'll get into these fits of doing all DIY stuff for the wedding and be able to sit there for hours and be totally fine. All of a sudden, my mood can completely flip and I become cranky and a total b!tch, but then you give me like half an hour, and then I'm fine again. And then I always feel so terrible for being such a pain.

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Oh yeah, I think it's because I'm stressing out about everything. I'm the one dealing with vendors, yet FH has the questions. I'm like hey why don't you call and ask that.

It never happens, plus I'm pmsing so I know I'm miserable right now. I just want our day to go smoothly. I have 7 more days!!!!