Anyone else feeling like the wedding is making them a horrible person?
melbalalala
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Anyone else feeling like the wedding is making them a horrible person?
I guess thats the definition of bridezilla?
Im not ready to flip out at vendors but little things are starting to nag on me. And Im normally a pretty laid back person.
i.e. flipping out that FMIL didnt ask me my opinion on menu choices for the RD, grinding my teeth when a BM wants to change her flight, getting a knot in my stomach when a guest backs out after sending in their response card??
ugh. I can't wait to look at this post in 44 days, see that everything worked out and that I was just being ridiculous.
I honestly can't stand myself at the moment. Im grossing myself out.
mskittynj
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I understand how you're feeling...I am not myself either!!! cranky, irritable, no patience.....It will all be over soon for us!!! XOXOXO Kitty
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its just coming down to the wire for you....so its totally understandable. And all those things you mentioned would annoy the crap out of me too. You're not alone!!!!!
luvabul
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sorrrrrrry your probably very emotional and touchyy , hang in there. your wedding will be beautifuL!
Ericab1980
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I'm usually as sweet as pie..but now I feel like my patience is short...I think we will all look back and laugh.. i hope
EastEndBride
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i just feel like the closer the wedding gets the thinner my skin is! my married friend warned me that 6months prior to the wedding i would start hating everyone around me without reason... weddings do crazy things to people, i guess!
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omg I'm soooo glad I'm not the only one!!! FH is like what's wrong w/ you?? You're cranky all the time!! I just can't... I see why the HM is soooo well deserved after all this!
UGH and my band company is driving me insane!!!!!
Ericab1980
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Posted by EastEndBride
i just feel like the closer the wedding gets the thinner my skin is! my married friend warned me that 6months prior to the wedding i would start hating everyone around me without reason... weddings do crazy things to people, i guess!
OMG ok I thought I was the only one..I seriously am not liking anyone..even FH..
SeptBride70
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its just coming down to the wire for you....so its totally understandable. And all those things you mentioned would annoy the crap out of me too. You're not alone!!!!!
I agree...
And you realize that it's just the stress of last minute things and stuff not going the way you had in mind... It happens and it's totally normal
Just think-- pretty soon you won't have to worry anymore and you'll have nothing but nice memories left to think about!
laural2979
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Weddings tend to display the true colors of others around you. Your inconsiderate FILs, the stupid vendors, idiot guests... Okay, maybe not everyone else in the world is a moron, but it's perfectly okay to feel that way. Deep breaths and get yourself a nice, big bottle of wine tonight.
milana
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I know what you mean! Im a very emotional person to start with but with the wedding getting closer and closer i feel as if i am just way too emotional!!
brittny817
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I sooo never wanted to be a whiner, complainer and act like the wedding was the be all and end all. I have been good but as the day is quickly approaching I've noticed the most ridiculous things set me off. I imagine it's only going to get worse. You're not alone. That's what we're here for
lilqtpie2181
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so far no...i have not really let anythijng urke me.. . generally im a very short fuse person but i have not let myslf be this way with the wedding. maybe closer to the day of ill start to be mored antsy about things.. but ull see everythign will be fine.. even if something doesn got the way u want it noone will realize it.
tonimike
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yesss.. im short fused with everyone & im normally avery calm person,,
nerves,,
Mdolph6
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I am sooooo not myself with 21 days left to go. I have no patients and everything and anything about this wedding bothers me....UGHHH
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Posted by Ericab1980
Posted by EastEndBride
i just feel like the closer the wedding gets the thinner my skin is! my married friend warned me that 6months prior to the wedding i would start hating everyone around me without reason... weddings do crazy things to people, i guess!
OMG ok I thought I was the only one..I seriously am not liking anyone..even FH..
Wayyy past the 6 months and people just don't understand. My family thinks I have gone insane because I am anxious. No, I am going insane because vendors do not call me back, BM's have not ordered dresses and no one seems to take anything seriously except for me! Oh that felt reeeeealllly gooooood.
Yep at six months it all hit me too....
GabrielleandJohn
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Posted by acutemark
Posted by Ericab1980
Posted by EastEndBride
i just feel like the closer the wedding gets the thinner my skin is! my married friend warned me that 6months prior to the wedding i would start hating everyone around me without reason... weddings do crazy things to people, i guess!
OMG ok I thought I was the only one..I seriously am not liking anyone..even FH..
Wayyy past the 6 months and people just don't understand. My family thinks I have gone insane because I am anxious. No, I am going insane because vendors do not call me back, BM's have not ordered dresses and no one seems to take anything seriously except for me! Oh that felt reeeeealllly gooooood.
Yep at six months it all hit me too....
It's a good thing FH loves me because at this point, i would leave myself.
werock0709
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At almost 3 months, to me this is crunch time. Although I haven't tons of things to do, I'm on edge. And it's not pretty. Thank god I have a man with patience. It makes all the difference to have the reassurance that everything will turn out ok. Man do I love him
dalgitang
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It's a good thing FH loves me because at this point, i would leave myself.
haha seriously....i'd definitely leave myself...
onelove1
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YES!!! I get in those moods from time to time where I want to scream
It's the stress of the wedding and the feeling that time is running out I just get nasty when I don't mean too, especially to FH. Thank goodness he calms me down
