Anyone else feeling like the wedding is making them a horrible person?
Original post by melbalalala
I guess thats the definition of bridezilla?
Im not ready to flip out at vendors but little things are starting to nag on me. And Im normally a pretty laid back person.
i.e. flipping out that FMIL didnt ask me my opinion on menu choices for the RD, grinding my teeth when a BM wants to change her flight, getting a knot in my stomach when a guest backs out after sending in their response card??
ugh. I can't wait to look at this post in 44 days, see that everything worked out and that I was just being ridiculous.
I honestly can't stand myself at the moment. Im grossing myself out.
PegaLega
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OH HELLLLLLL YEAH!
Lately I have been telling people they better 'act right' or I will kick them out
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IF you have something to say about my wedding you really dont have to come...better yet it will be better if you didnt
onelove1
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cmrcmr0430
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I totally understand...believe me! I have been a different person since before Christmas!!! I really want to choke a BM, but I will probably end up in jail!
danielle19755
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well I have to say this.. I really do feel bad sometimes.. My dream is to have this amazing wedding, and my FH's is to have a house.. ALL our money is going into the wedding and we havent saved anything for the house... I feel bad
miss nee
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not horrible .. but not able to tolerate as much as i used to ..
portjeffbride
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Wayyy past the 6 months and people just don't understand. My family thinks I have gone insane because I am anxious. No, I am going insane because vendors do not call me back, BM's have not ordered dresses and no one seems to take anything seriously except for me! Oh that felt reeeeealllly gooooood.
Yep at six months it all hit me too....
I noticed that 90% of everyone's stress is becuase friends and family don't do what they're supposed to at the proper time....
After reading what everyone goes through, i just decided to simply not depend upon anyone for anything. I'm doing it ALL. Added stress? mmm, not really. At least I know where I stand. For the most part, I trust my vendors (except for one! grrrr) and that is a great de-stresser. As for other peoples clothing, I tell them, we're going on this day, and getting you something. No whining!
I just snap like a pirhana the SECOND someone attempts to change one of my plans. No help = no input!!! (Shoveling $$$ to the cause does not entitle input)
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I know how you are feeling everyone is getting on my nerve and the fact that most of my BP and family are showing little interest at this point is really pissing me off.
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I've been watching Brideszilla and before I got engaged, I was like, these women are crazy. Now, I kinda feel for them, I do. Ok, some are just nuts, but I understand now why they are nuts. But I promise (to try) not to turn into one of them. Ok maybe, a little, when no one is looking
