Is it me or has anyone else felt (or is feeling)this pain staking anxiety (right in my chest) over the wedding when it was really close. In my case it's 17 days and I can't think straight, sleep at night or eat a lot. It's not that I'm nervous about who I'm going to marry I've known FH for practically half my life!! He is my soulmate without a shadow of a doubt!! It's just I'm sooo afraid of everything, worrying that something will go wrong, like my dress will not be finished properly, my photographer will not show up. The food will be get burned the list goes on and on..I don't know but here is the funny thing of it all..I'm a dirt off the shoulders kinda girl nothing fazes me EVER!! So WHY am I feeling this?? I'm so sorry I just had to let this out!!!
allegracristina
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YES!!!!!!! I get PANGS of anxiety/chest pain/feel like an anvil is on my chest all the time. Now at 10 days it's bad! I too am sure of my decision but just have lots of anxiety about lord knows what!
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I am 3 months and 23 days out and I have having severe anxiety over the huge payments that are coming due quite soon and I feel quite ill but it is nice to know that the closer I get, a new anxiety will set in.
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YUP!!!! 26 days and starting to freak out a little especially over all the lists I have to compile and everything that has to get done. Keep having dreams that it’s all over and I don't remember a thing!!! Wish I could lose appetite though couldn't hurt to lose a couple more pounds! (Which is another thing that bugs me constantly)
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Thank you so much for letting me know I'm not the only one. It's so weird I am getting shortness of breath everything that would signify anxiety. I just don't want to tell Fh because I'm afraid he will take it the wrong way. Did I mention how moody I am I cry at every single thing!!! Was watching Wall E with the fam last night and broke down at the end!! It's almost like being pregnant..lol
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Posted by leeserd
I am 3 months and 23 days out and I have having severe anxiety over the huge payments that are coming due quite soon and I feel quite ill but it is nice to know that the closer I get, a new anxiety will set in.
3 months ago I was fine. And I was only halfway through my planning. Maybe you will get it out your system by the time the wedding rolls around.
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yes. . 12 days and starting to freak a little. but I just try to have faith all the important things will go well, all the things that go wrong will be good stories, and in the end if people I love are there and we are eating and drinking all is good. .
and I already hate my dress so only can go up from there
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Yes!!! I know exactly how you feel. Up until a few days ago I was fine but as soon as I hit 3 months til the wedding I started having anxiety. I woke up and couldnt go back to sleep and I have been a nervous wreck ever since. I just feel like there is so much to get done, we have no money and I'm anxious all of the time. I'm trying to work out as much as possible to relieve some stress and FH keeps saying we just need to do one thing at a time....but I cant help stressing over it!! I definitely feel your pain. :(
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Oh yes! I had it sooo bad, DH was getting worried that if we should call it off for a little while. There was just soo many things that I forgot to do and all that. But it worked out perfectly in the long run. I would do it all over again if I could. Don't worry...it will all disappear the morning that you wake up of your wedding...you'll feel like you're on cloud nine.
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Oh yes! I had it sooo bad, DH was getting worried that if we should call it off for a little while. There was just soo many things that I forgot to do and all that. But it worked out perfectly in the long run. I would do it all over again if I could. Don't worry...it will all disappear the morning that you wake up of your wedding...you'll feel like you're on cloud nine.
Hey Dani, Love your pics and wedding
That is exactly the reason why I don't want to tell FH I'm so afraid he will take it the wrong way. I know it sounds sappy but every day that passes I fall in love with him deeper and deeper so I know it is not cold feet. I wish the day would come..wait let me finish these lst things first and then it can come..lol...
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yes. . 12 days and starting to freak a little. but I just try to have faith all the important things will go well, all the things that go wrong will be good stories, and in the end if people I love are there and we are eating and drinking all is good. .
and I already hate my dress so only can go up from there
Awww I went throught that too I wouldn't say I hated it I just thought I wanted a fancier dress. Till I tried it on at the second fitting and it actually fit a WHOLE better then I was in instant love again and I knew I made the right choice.
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For me the anxiety comes and goes. The more I have to get done or the less I get to talk with FH, the more panicky I get! Right now I'm calm, but I really feel like it's just the calm before the storm.
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Wow, I still have 6 months to go and I'm vomiting. I can't even imagine what it's going to be like days before, I'll probably end up in the hospital.
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I don't get anxiety that bad but when I think about everything going smoothly the day of I sometimes start to worry and then I tell myself not to worry yet.
