Anxiety... I feel like all of a sudden it has gotten worse. I don't know if it has to do with the wedding or money. Some nights I can't go to sleep and just think think think... grr.
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I was feeling this exact way last night! For me I think it has a lot to do with money...my FH keeps telling me not to worry about it and that we will be fine, but I keep having this scary thought that it's a week b4 the wedding and we run out of money and things aren't payed for yet...
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It seems as if this is happenning all of a sudden and it is freaking me out. On Sunday I didn't fall alseep until 1am and I wake up at 5. I def had a panic attack and couldn't stop worrying about things.
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I feel like I do this everyday!! Even though FH and I worked out a system, I feel like I am in a panic every day about the $$$
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Posted by FromGtoC
It seems as if this is happenning all of a sudden and it is freaking me out. On Sunday I didn't fall alseep until 1am and I wake up at 5. I def had a panic attack and couldn't stop worrying about things.
try to write down what is stressing you out. You don't want to feel like this until 2013!
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I was stressed about it since the beginning. But then on Sunday my dad had to basically integrate me about how we paying for the wedding and moving out. Now for the past 3 days I been panicking so I can completely relate!
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I can defintely relate! My parents are paying for the majority of it, but theyre not millionaires by any means and I feel terrible at how expensive everything is! When my mom and I sat down and budgeted out the vendors, on top of the RH, we were well into the high 20's and thats not including all the little things. Im already freaking out about paying for the honeymoon, all the bridal party gifts, and stationary items. Plus theres a bunch of little things that add up quickly, as you all know! We have a 2 year old son, who is expensive enough, and FH went back to school on top of his job so his books/classes are expensive and my cousin is getting married next September and I am in the bridal party so I am worried about all of those expenses. We have a vacation planned for March that was booked before we were engaged (its paid for already and cant be refunded) that I am freaking out about because I really dont want to spend the money know with the wedding and all of this coming up next year. Heres hoping one of us hits the lotto or something!
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oh no, girls! no worries
i think some anxiety and stress is totally normal, but if you're getting overwhelmed, take a step back and just chat on forums! we are all here for you
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Posted by FromGtoC
Anxiety... I feel like all of a sudden it has gotten worse. I don't know if it has to do with the wedding or money. Some nights I can't go to sleep and just think think think... grr.
YES!!!! For a week straight I was up every night wide awake just watching tv & thinking. This week it has gotten better.
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I wouldnt say Ive had much anxiety yet but I have def had plenty of nights just laying in bed thinking of random things about the wedding. 1 night I caught myself thinking about bathroom and flip flop baskets and I was like WTH?! Go to sleep!! Lol
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I understand completely! Apparently my new bedtime is 3am every day. I also don't know if it's just the money I'm worried about or the fact that I am trying the impossible feat of making everyone happy.
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OMG I tottally understand, I feel the same way when I start to think about everything I have to pay for, I go Crazy!!!!
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From the night I got engaged up till now, my anxiety is insane! There were a few times, I told my FH let's just have a small dinner and call it a day because I feel and felt completely overwhelmed. The money part is the BIGGEST issue for us- we're paying for the wedding ourselves and it's rough!!
Hang in there...we're all in the same boat~
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OMG I thought I was the only one.. I have had the weirdest nightmares, I try not to stress it though we have more than enough time ladies we will all be ok and have the most beautiful weddings ever!!!!!!!!
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Anxiety is the worst feeling in the entire world.
FromGtoC
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Even though I don't wish this on the world it is good to hear I am not the only one. Then my dream last night was that is poured on my wedding day and just kept holding off on starting the ceremony to see if it would stop. This wedding is making me nutsss..
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Even though I don't wish this on the world it is good to hear I am not the only one. Then my dream last night was that is poured on my wedding day and just kept holding off on starting the ceremony to see if it would stop. This wedding is making me nutsss..
Ive had the pouring rain nightmare... I was soaked and we couldnt take pix and I was hysterical