I have 8 BMs and its sooo annoying to plan anything. To find a weekend that works for everyone is next to impossible. One of my BMs is in California, and she's going to be in town for a Christening the weekend of Aug 20, so I decided to make the bach party that weekend since she would already be here. Well now my sister can't go! (she;s my half sister and we're not super close) She had a vacation already planned that weekend, and she tried to switch it but can't. I feel so crappy about the whole thing, but you can't make everyone happy. Just stinks.
Lana and Johan
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I feel ur pain, I went through the same issues. You cant please everyone. Pick whats best for you and enjoy!!!
Cataverri
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It is a bit difficult....I suggest to stick to a date and it's upto people whether they want to show up or not. I'm sure if 1 or 2 dont show you will have blast anyways!!!!!!!!!!
rosatemp
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ya i hear ya on that its so hard to have everyone available at the same time...dont give up it will work out somehow
SoonToBeMrsCali
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Yea, I hate it. Why are we planning this anyway? Isn't it a party thrown for us in honor of us? I just don't like planning these things and knowing details, I want to be surprised. I never am.
SoonToBeMrsFox
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i know exactly how you feel; i started off with over 15 girls interested and 6 are coming!
you're going to have a great time regardless!
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sorry TT!!!! :(
for me... its a total surprise. Since i knew about everything else... especially with the shower my b-party decided to keep me in the dark about everything. I dont even know when it is. I just decided to order some sahses for them since i thought it was super thoughtful
FDNYwife1029
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WOW!!!!!! you completely wrote how i am feeling to the tee... well guess what? i have given up on planning anything!!!!!!!
Screw it! people are so annoying! i know you can't find a time that works for all -- but meet me half way people!
DONE!!!!!!!!!!!!
CroatianBride
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I had this same problem...at first I wanted it to be a suprise but gave up on that when no plans were being made because there were too many idea's out there. I took matters into my own hands, decided when I wanted to go and text all my girls with the location, approximate price and two different dates. I went with the date most girls were available and booked Cancun myself. Not everyone is able to make it, but that's ok. I still have an awesome crew coming with me
InLuvWithMyBF
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hey! I know what you're going thru! this whole part of the wedding plannig has suckeeeedddd major monkey balls!!! lol
I agree that just look after yourself and a time and date convinient for you! it Is your day afterall!
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Don't get me started. My bridal party started bickering the day I mentioned a date. I coulnd't deal so I pick the date and location and said show up if you can lol.
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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali
Yea, I hate it. Why are we planning this anyway? Isn't it a party thrown for us in honor of us? I just don't like planning these things and knowing details, I want to be surprised. I never am.
THIS!!!!!!!!!!
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def in the same boat as you girls
im going to vegas this thursday but not all the girls could go, only 2 out of the 7. which i understand bc its pricey and a big trip and some girls are married with babies
we were supposed to have another night out so that the girls who cant make vegas can still party with me
its like ridicccccccc everyone has an opinion on everything and no one can agree on one date
i thought the bride wasn't supposed to plan this? but i feel like i have to take matters into my own hands to make sure somethinggg happens
dunnkat
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Im planning mine too or it wouldnt get done, honestly I should have just skipped it more stress than its worth!! People are just never happy, I'm seriously so over all this planning stuff.
FDNYwife1029
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it's just not worth the stress to me anymore - at this point.
