Ok, this woman I used to babysit for called me yesterday. I babysat for her son when I was looking for a full time job (which I now have). I had also sent her a save the date card, and I thought she was calling to say Thanks. She did say Ohhow cute by the way can you babysit tomorrow (after my 9-5 job) for about 3 hours. Her babysitter now has a wedding to go to and cant work, she's in a bind and needs help. Of course I felt bad and even though I am exhausted after Im done with my regular job, I said yes. Does anyone else feel bad telling people no??
Danielle&Scott
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no lol
btrflygrl
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Oh yea....that's me totally....I don't know HOW to say No.....
brideinapril
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Yes - I admit I have a very hard time telling people 'NO' - I am the biggest push-over.
Irishbride
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I have hard time saying No but I am getting a little better at it.
Maribelle7777
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NO
(heh )
soxfan
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YES and I totally stress about it after making a commitment like that . .
lilmrs
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I used to but then I felt taken advantage of so now I am getting a lot better at it.
swags1016
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One of my biggest downfalls! I absolutely have the hard time saying no and get stepped on and used all the time because of it.
nferrandi
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Yes and no. There are certain people, like my sister, that I can not say no to. She's so used to me doing whatever she asks that the rare occasions I say no, she won't talk to me for a week. Just this morning she needed me to help her and she knew I had a fitting. I wound up hitting traffic and was 40 minutes late because of her.
DebsNY
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I do! i try so hard to find excuses to say no
nov.bride
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I can totally relate- this is the story of my life. I take on everyones stuff for them and screw myself over.
matron
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I never say no. That's why I'm a constant stress-case.
Kel
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