Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

DH didn't cry when seeing me in my wedding gown, and I didn't cry on our wedding day either. Neither of us are really mushy.

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

for those of you that want a 'sensitive' guy, take my fh for a week. he cries at every little thing. it was sweet at first, i mean he cried the first time we, you know, nod-nod, wink, wink. and its very sweet that he cares so much, but enough is enough. trust me, you will give him back in half a day.

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

FH and I have a $100 dollar bet on the wedding day. I say he'll cry he says no, men don't cry. I'm going to pull out all the stops so I'll win.

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

Nope my DH doesn't cry but I don' think it qualifies them as dead.

Does you FH express his feeling other ways?

Of course I wanted DH to cry at our wedding but he didn't....he had this not so cute nervous laugh. Just what every bride wants a laughing groom

Eh he loves me and I know that so in the end that's all that matters.

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

Fh doesn't cry often.. except when i'm really upset and crying.. then he'll start to tear up and depending what its on he'll shed a tear or two.

when he proposed he got all teary eyed and almost cried but i started laughing cause i thought it was so sweet that he was crying (kinda).. yea i ruined the moment! i know!

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

FH dosent cry.. but gets teary with sad sports movies--- whenever i need to reaffirm that he is 'sensitive' i pop on 'RUDY' and watch his reactions.. and 'Brians Song' (from the early 80s or 70s i think). I guess he can't deal w/ bad things happening to sports people?

he cried once on the phone while we were broken up a few years ago... i only got to hear it though.

hope that didnt come out wrong--- i dont want to make him cry but i understand what you're saying Jennie-- ya just wanna break the Chandler Syndrome

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

I've seen mine cry a few times in the 4 years we've been together. One was when we were discussing his having to move back to England, he just broke down. And then there were many teary goodbyes the year I lived in NY and he lived in London. He got a little choked up during our vows, but didn't really cry.

ETA: It breaks my heart when he cries

Re: Anyone else have a SO who is 'dead inside'?

Mine cries - ALOT!!!

He is a sensitive man...

I keep jokingly telling him he is not going to get a puppy after the wedding if he sobs through the whole ceremony.

He will sob - but so will I.