How do you stop yourself from becomming completely offended by every rude remark and comment?
melcc83
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for me I think we are the first to get married so a lot of people dont understand, They dont get all the little things and why we need totalk about it 24/7 lol
Joe and Erica
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OMG I can totally relate!!! I have a 3 MOH's one is a Matron OH and she is in Spain- she is my sister-not much she can do from so far away!
the other Maid OH is just the most miserable person ever!!! She always has something nasty to say.... 'i turn everything into a big deal...blah blha' Its my wedding for pete sake!
You have to take a deep breathe and just ignore it!!!
MrsDrinkh20
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totally can relate..my sister is the most disinterested person alive...we can support each other! I willl pretend ot be a bridesmaid and be interested if you pretend to be my MOH
mcclj74
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i dont know how to deal anymore - i want to kick people out - but i have to be nice as to not cause drama...
i thought wedding parties were supposed to be supportive and help you out and be excited...seems like all i do is get screwed around with and stepped on
beram63
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at first, it was my MOH and then another BM who put on a pained expression every time the wedding came up.
i vented to FH about it then but never gave them a hard time. since then they've come around and all is swell in wedding land
PoppedInASnap
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Posted by bellalinda156
Well, I have an uninterested mother... It hurts! it's to the point I just don't talk about the wedding plans with her at all.
aww no :( Is it that she and you aren't close? I'm sory about that.... Im sure thats rough
littlepixie12
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i think we all deal with this. actually, none of my BMS (excpet my MOH) really talk to me about the wedding, mabye bc is far and i havent asked me to get the dresses yet ... i dont know.
PoppedInASnap
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Posted by MrsDrinkh20
totally can relate..my sister is the most disinterested person alive...we can support each other! I willl pretend ot be a bridesmaid and be interested if you pretend to be my MOH
Deal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Then again we are twins so maybe our sisters are twins as well... lmao
ttdiff11
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i have 2 moh's and 10 bm's! ah its nuts but i want them all in it. they are all actually very interested, well except one. shes a little younger and just rather talk about getting drunk at the wedding lol
FutureMrsG
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I have THREE! Fh's two sisters and his sister in law. At first I let it bother me but after FH and I had a BIG fight over their lack of interest I have let it go.
