Anyone else shocked by a 'no' response

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Posted by weddingbees

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Posted by dfw343

yes
As most of you know, after I got engaged, my Dad got sick and eventually died of cancer.
at my Father's funeral, his BEST FRIEND, whom he was in a Holocaust camp with..there everyday at his deathbed, got mad at me cuz I told him to wait a minute upon speaking to me b/c the guy running the funeral home wanted someone to identify the body from the hospital and I ran cuz I didn't want my MOM to be the one.
He tells my sister he's mad even after she got done explaining what I was doing. I never apologized, thinking ok he gets it now. and you know what, that DAY at my FATHER'S funeral, I think I had a license to act how I wanted to.

He replied no as did his two sons who my Father LOVED and did anything for. No explination or anything.

I am devastated.

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oh my. the whole situation top to bottom is awful. maybe they'll come around. i'm sorry for your loss :( your dad will be watching over you though on the day and i'm sure that friend and his family will be thinking of you too.

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Thank you. I had time to mourn and accept it. My Uncle , his brother is giving me away.

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Posted by cavvento

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Posted by dfw343

yes
As most of you know, after I got engaged, my Dad got sick and eventually died of cancer.
at my Father's funeral, his BEST FRIEND, whom he was in a Holocaust camp with..there everyday at his deathbed, got mad at me cuz I told him to wait a minute upon speaking to me b/c the guy running the funeral home wanted someone to identify the body from the hospital and I ran cuz I didn't want my MOM to be the one.
He tells my sister he's mad even after she got done explaining what I was doing. I never apologized, thinking ok he gets it now. and you know what, that DAY at my FATHER'S funeral, I think I had a license to act how I wanted to.

He replied no as did his two sons who my Father LOVED and did anything for. No explination or anything.

I am devastated.

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OMG, that is just terrible. I'm so sorry for you. Have you tried to reach out to the sons? Maybe they would be more receptive to seeing what went on and can work on their dad for you.

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I spoke to my Mom and she said leave it alone...I can;t apologize for nothing I did wrong. He gave my sister a hard time about something else after that and she spoke up. He is a little bit crazy but I never thought he'd act this way.