Anyone experience this??

So I am curious how others have handled this situation: we just got back an RSVP that included this couple's 2 year old baby, although we are having an adult only reception and did not include the baby's name on the invite. Anyone else think this is rude?? Any thoughts on how to handle?????

(sorry original post in wrong place!!)
TIA!!

I had a cousin that said he and his wife could only come if they could bring their infnat. My mom called and told them it was an adult only reception. They ended up not comming. In my opinion, it is rude to assume that a child is invited. Also, if it is really important for them to be at your wedding, they will be there.
I think this post came off as sounding a little snotty.....it really wasn't meant to be...lol.

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Posted by futuremrsred

I had a cousin that said he and his wife could only come if they could bring their infnat. My mom called and told them it was an adult only reception. They ended up not comming. In my opinion, it is rude to assume that a child is invited. Also, if it is really important for them to be at your wedding, they will be there.
I think this post came off as sounding a little snotty.....it really wasn't meant to be...lol.

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NOT snotty at all! I completely agree, it is rude to assume a child can come... Surprised that couple ended up not coming to your wedding because they couldn't bring their child.....I??!? just don't get some people.

when people behave like this, it hardly turns out the way you hope it will. Decide how you are going to feel in each scenerio and pick the one you are most willing to deal with.

good luck!

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Posted by Mici n KC

I responded in the other thread where you posted the question.

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OK Thanks I'll check now :) Not sure how I posted there!!!