- it took me 3 weeks to order our ketubah because we wavered back and forth about whether to add a header line and what to change one word in the text to
- it took me 4 weeks to order ribbon because i couldnt decide between 2 shades of blue and then threw ivory into the mix at the end
- i havent ordered yarmulkes yet because i'm stuck between black with flowers and white with flowers.
I'm sure when it comes to these things either one is fine and people won't care, but why am I so indecisive?
Anyone else taking way too long to make up your mind about minor details?
TheFutureMrsM
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Re: Anyone having trouble making decisions?
When we had our 2nd meeting with our rabbi, she had an extra ketubah because her husband had gotten hospitalized and she had to send someone else to do the wedding, so she had theirs at her house, and she showed it to us, and we liked it, and said we'll take it lol. We were really easy!
As far as the Yarlmukes his parents ordered them, he just said he wanted black suede type ones, not puffy, so she did that.
It took me a long time to decide on my gown, headpiece, veils, and i also had alot of hair and makeup trials I took a long time to decide on invites as well.
I am sure if we went to a ketubah store or really looked online we would of never been able to make a choice, but since she had it right there, and brought it with her to the ceremony, we just went with it.
People notice the details, but some people are so wasted they wont notice anything lol. So try not to wait to last minute
I waited for the last minute on alot of things because im just lazy, and indecisive lol. THere is alot of running around that last week that i think you cant help lol
Gigi08
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Yes! I still haven't ordered or decided on a bunch of little things like a bag/purse, garter, money bag/box. I pretty much know what I want, but I keep procrastinating. And, this is not little, but that is what ended up happening with my invitations. I had a favorite for so long that I was pretty much set on getting, but for some reason I was just a little unsure. Well, I ended up changing my mind and going with something different.
When people ask me what I have left, it doesn't seem like a lot. But, when I start thinking about it, I feel like there are so many things left to do!
And, I definitely feel like a victim of 'bride brain'!! I feel like I can't think straight lately.