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Original post by MrsSoto
I dont know if she ended up telling anyone who she was and if we knew her but remember the anonymous poster who was having really bad problems with FHs family and she was considering breaking up with him because he wouldnt stand up for her to his family?? Anyone heard from her?? I was thinking about her and it was just such a tough situation she was in ![]()
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i wasn't around for that thread. but omg i hope she's ok, but it's definitely the right thing to do to leave. its' only going to get worse with his family if she stays.
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she changed her name to post all that stuff - i wish i knew her real log in name - i thought about her a few weeks ago when someone else posted family drama crap!
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aww thats so sad and really *****.....
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Thank you for the support and well-wishes. And thank you to the girls who FMed me to talk and to the person who sent me this thread via FM or I never would have seen it. You are an amazing group of girls and I had no idea when I posted that I would receive such an outpouring of support.
The truth is you girls all seem so happy to be planning your weddings, and I simply felt more anxiety about entering into this union than happiness. And coming to this site was a real eye-opener about how a happy couple should act and how a happy bride should feel.
I'm 99% sure I will not go through with this wedding. FH has ONE chance to fix things, and a deadline to do it by. Or I will send him packing back to his mommy, sisters, and aunts who can keep running his life and making his decision for him. I have really had enough. I have come to the decision that I will be OK by myself. I can get through a break-up. And knowing there are brides on this site who are in their 40's lets me know I don't have to settle for a guy because I am in my mid-30's. I honestly feel so stupid for thinking that because of my age I should just put up with certain things.
I truly wanted to be a 2010 bride, but I realized that I seemed more excied about being a bride, than about being a wife and starting a permanent life together.
So, thank you ladies. I'm not going to post anymore under this name(but I will answer FMs), because I really like how happy your all seem. I really enjoy this site and I feel like I am ruining it and bringing you all down.
I really wish you all the best and hope you all have wonderful weddings, but more importantly, a long and happy life together.
Thank you so much for all of the support!
The truth is you girls all seem so happy to be planning your weddings, and I simply felt more anxiety about entering into this union than happiness. And coming to this site was a real eye-opener about how a happy couple should act and how a happy bride should feel.
I'm 99% sure I will not go through with this wedding. FH has ONE chance to fix things, and a deadline to do it by. Or I will send him packing back to his mommy, sisters, and aunts who can keep running his life and making his decision for him. I have really had enough. I have come to the decision that I will be OK by myself. I can get through a break-up. And knowing there are brides on this site who are in their 40's lets me know I don't have to settle for a guy because I am in my mid-30's. I honestly feel so stupid for thinking that because of my age I should just put up with certain things.
I truly wanted to be a 2010 bride, but I realized that I seemed more excied about being a bride, than about being a wife and starting a permanent life together.
So, thank you ladies. I'm not going to post anymore under this name(but I will answer FMs), because I really like how happy your all seem. I really enjoy this site and I feel like I am ruining it and bringing you all down.
I really wish you all the best and hope you all have wonderful weddings, but more importantly, a long and happy life together.
Thank you so much for all of the support!
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Posted by maybebride
Thank you for the support and well-wishes. And thank you to the girls who FMed me to talk and to the person who sent me this thread via FM or I never would have seen it. You are an amazing group of girls and I had no idea when I posted that I would receive such an outpouring of support.
The truth is you girls all seem so happy to be planning your weddings, and I simply felt more anxiety about entering into this union than happiness. And coming to this site was a real eye-opener about how a happy couple should act and how a happy bride should feel.
I'm 99% sure I will not go through with this wedding. FH has ONE chance to fix things, and a deadline to do it by. Or I will send him packing back to his mommy, sisters, and aunts who can keep running his life and making his decision for him. I have really had enough. I have come to the decision that I will be OK by myself. I can get through a break-up. And knowing there are brides on this site who are in their 40's lets me know I don't have to settle for a guy because I am in my mid-30's. I honestly feel so stupid for thinking that because of my age I should just put up with certain things.
I truly wanted to be a 2010 bride, but I realized that I seemed more excied about being a bride, than about being a wife and starting a permanent life together.
So, thank you ladies. I'm not going to post anymore under this name(but I will answer FMs), because I really like how happy your all seem. I really enjoy this site and I feel like I am ruining it and bringing you all down.
I really wish you all the best and hope you all have wonderful weddings, but more importantly, a long and happy life together.
Thank you so much for all of the support!
I'm so glad to hear from you; you seem confident in your decision, and I'm sure it will all work out for the best.
Best of luck to you in whatever the situation brings.
