depressed? insane? sometimes this wedding planning stuff can bring out the worst in all involved players, myself included. it is a high anxiety time, and that's not including the agita that i incur when FH and i have a fight. When we fight about stupid stuff, our fights escalate and then i'm left feeling -why the HELL are we planning a wedding??!?!
argh. just had to vent. feels good to write...!
Katherine121
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I hope you're not bummed that no one responded to this. You're not alone in how you feel sometimes. Wedding planning can be stressful to say the least. It's cliche, but you will be a lot less stressed if you 'don't sweat the small stuff.' And don't overstretch yourself financially. Hang in there.
katieshope
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I do!!! Its really hard for me because I am planning from VA, and everything is in NY, and FI is no help at all, he just gets frustrated when I talk about wedding stuff!!
JPC1125
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all the time....i have to watch it cause its literally driving my FH insane
SummerBride2005
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I think the best thing to do is to tackle each item one at a time...at your pace...Looking at the whole picture right now is overwhelming. I felt very overwhelmed at first but now that I booked practically all my key vendors, I feel much more relieved.
Whenever you start getting frustrated...just try to take a step back and see each 'to do' item one at a time...You'll be fine..don't worry too much...try to enjoy the process at the same time. Best of luck!
Marisa M
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FH and I just had a financial meltdown - We recovered, but the last 3 hours were not fun !! - Don't feel bad, my stress level is at 105 !
busybee705
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I have had to deal with so many issues: -getting a job -wedding planning -getting an apartment and everything needs to be done in 4 months.
Just a couple of hours ago, I was feeling so overwhelmed, I took a couple of aspirins and slept for a while. I feel better though.
