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Anyone not having a bachelorette barty?

lyss4525 Posted:

Anyone not having a bachelorette barty?

I'm not sure I want one...anyone else feel the same way?

anneandchris Posted:

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ME!!!!!!!!! I am not into the whole Bachelorette stripper male review kind of thing.

I would like a nice girls night out though. Dinner in the city and then anyone who wants to come out after does and those who don't want that is fine that they leave.

My point is I would prefer a regular girls get together with no title of bachelorette necessary!
lyss4525 Posted:

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Thank you! I thought I was alone. I'm thinking maybe just go to a comedy club or something? I don't know...

anneandchris Posted:

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My whole thing is even its a girls weekend away -- it is not something different then we would normally do. Just maybe invite a few extra people and maybe get a little drunker then usual but none of the extras.

My other idea is too just have a big girls sleepover. Bring in food, wine, snacks. All of the close women in my life we always have the best time just sitting around drinking wine and laughing. That is what is important to me.
Michiamanomimi Posted:

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A lot of my closest friends live out of town, so they can't come in for a bachelorette party and the wedding. So we'll probably have a Jack and Jill gathering at a local bar the night before the wedding. No heavy drinking and strippers there. Hung over on my wedding day is not my idea of a fun time.

MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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I am having one minus the stripper.. Just a fun night with the ladies.. limos..restaurant then drinks.
Rayjenn317 Posted:

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I'm going to have on, no strippers...if there are im leaving and my girls know that! I just want to go out to dinner and go to a club with all my girls and have a nice time out!
The boys are going golfing...they arent even doing anything big!
MAY24BRIDE Posted:

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I'm having one, but def no strippers. I think the plan is to get our nails done and go out for brunch (with my young sisters) and my friends and I are going to Mohegan Sun for the night.

davenjess Posted:

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I'm having one - but not the normal way either....

If there's a single p e n i s anywhere near me - my girls know i won't be happy!

I have no idea what we're doing - as they are going to surprise me with the plans..
kristi313 Posted:

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i'm not a big drinker and never been into the whole bar/club scene. so if i have anything i would like it to be like a spa weekend or going to the city for dinner and a show

lyss4525 Posted:

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Ooh...a spa weekend sounds like a good idea!

babieblueeyez96 Posted:

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Posted by meaganpallotta

I am having one minus the stripper.. Just a fun night with the ladies.. limos..restaurant then drinks.

i second this...i dont do the whole stripper thing and neither does FH thank god!!! lol, just a night out with the girls is perfect for me
Espo22 Posted:

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a bachelorette party doesnt mean there has to be a male stripper...most bachelorette parties i know about dont have one...the girls usually just go out partying and have a good time...i definitely want to go out and party like a rock star lol but i am not into strippers

snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

a bachelorette party doesnt mean there has to be a male stripper...most bachelorette parties i know about dont have one...the girls usually just go out partying and have a good time...i definitely want to go out and party like a rock star lol but i am not into strippers



i agree. I actually just always thought it's usually assumed that the guys have strippers but the girls hardly ever do. I think if FH said he didn't want strippers his friends would make fun of him ruthlessly. i don't even care - i told him to play wyclef's song while he is getting a lap dance and i'll buy his first dance
AS Posted:

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I absolutely DO NOT want a make stripper at my BP, they are effing disgusting
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22

a bachelorette party doesnt mean there has to be a male stripper...most bachelorette parties i know about dont have one...the girls usually just go out partying and have a good time...i definitely want to go out and party like a rock star lol but i am not into strippers



i agree. I actually just always thought it's usually assumed that the guys have strippers but the girls hardly ever do. I think if FH said he didn't want strippers his friends would make fun of him ruthlessly. i don't even care - i told him to play wyclef's song while he is getting a lap dance and i'll buy his first dance



yeah the stripper thing is definitely more of a guy thing...i know girls who have done the male stripper thing but most don't. LOL oh fh doesnt even have a choice with his friends lol theyre planning it and the one in charge oh god i can only imagine what he has in store lol
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22

a bachelorette party doesnt mean there has to be a male stripper...most bachelorette parties i know about dont have one...the girls usually just go out partying and have a good time...i definitely want to go out and party like a rock star lol but i am not into strippers



i agree. I actually just always thought it's usually assumed that the guys have strippers but the girls hardly ever do. I think if FH said he didn't want strippers his friends would make fun of him ruthlessly. i don't even care - i told him to play wyclef's song while he is getting a lap dance and i'll buy his first dance



yeah the stripper thing is definitely more of a guy thing...i know girls who have done the male stripper thing but most don't. LOL oh fh doesnt even have a choice with his friends lol theyre planning it and the one in charge oh god i can only imagine what he has in store lol



yeah, i'm not going to kid myself: i know FH WANTS strippers. I was just like, fine but no hookers okay?? b/c he's told me some crazy stories from his friends' bach parties and who knows what his friends will plan
snwb08 Posted:

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Posted by MPAS

I absolutely DO NOT want a make stripper at my BP, they are effing disgusting



amen, sister!!! well said!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22


Posted by snwb08


Posted by Espo22

a bachelorette party doesnt mean there has to be a male stripper...most bachelorette parties i know about dont have one...the girls usually just go out partying and have a good time...i definitely want to go out and party like a rock star lol but i am not into strippers



i agree. I actually just always thought it's usually assumed that the guys have strippers but the girls hardly ever do. I think if FH said he didn't want strippers his friends would make fun of him ruthlessly. i don't even care - i told him to play wyclef's song while he is getting a lap dance and i'll buy his first dance



yeah the stripper thing is definitely more of a guy thing...i know girls who have done the male stripper thing but most don't. LOL oh fh doesnt even have a choice with his friends lol theyre planning it and the one in charge oh god i can only imagine what he has in store lol



yeah, i'm not going to kid myself: i know FH WANTS strippers. I was just like, fine but no hookers okay?? b/c he's told me some crazy stories from his friends' bach parties and who knows what his friends will plan



yeah i dont mind the strippers, im gonna ask his friend soon if he started planning it...he did bring it up a while ago of course so im sure lol
AS Posted:

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Posted by snwb08


Posted by MPAS

I absolutely DO NOT want a make stripper at my BP, they are effing disgusting



amen, sister!!! well said!



Im not a lesbo but Id rather have a girl stripper than a guy

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