I am past the 6 mos mark and suddenly I am doubting everything I chose already. I keep thinking I want to change my mind on everything. I chose low centerpieces, and now I think I should go high. My dress isnt white white, its a shade off, more ivory, and now I am thinking It'll look terrible. Anyone feeling similar?
Tina120206
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OMG, I'm going through the same thing. I doubt my dress everyday. One day i love it and the next thinking 'oh i should have gotten white' or 'I should have at least tried on some more' or 'i've always wanted a tulle bottom, why didn't I try one on'. I'm hoping it will pass. But I'm in a sorta bridal denial right now, not wanting to think about anything. I don't want to register, I don't want to plan my e-photos, not really into planning an engagement party, not interested in doing flowers yet, didn't ask my bridesmaids, hating my hair, kicking myself that I cut it so short, just seems like everything is getting to me. I feel like I'm in a rut. All I wanted to do was book my hall. Once that was done, I feel like i'm dragging my feet on everything else.
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Honestly, no, I haven't thought twice about anything. No, thats not true, I have been obsessing that my dress was not measured hollow to hem and that it won't be altered properly. But I have not thought about changing anything I have done.
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hi date twin- i second guess everything-and i told myself to stop looking at other gowns, bm dresses, flowers, etc however i am breaking my own rules
its hard because these are big decisions but i can tell you one thing- i ordered ivory and i am so happy that i did- i think ivory is just stunning
CJStein
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Yes!
Second guessing it all....dress, flowers, bm dresses....I need to stop looking at magazines.
MrsFudge
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Yes, I have been totally freaking out about every single choice I have made so far. I have no idea why I am stressing so much..
MissingTheBGene
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Um, yeah. I'm not second guessing our decisions, it's just becoming harder to make them as the little things seem to be driving us more insane than booking big vendors.
Money is a big headache of mine right now, as well as finally securing our limos. I think I've seen more limo companies than DJs and Photographers!
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Posted by Preshy7
hi date twin- i second guess everything-and i told myself to stop looking at other gowns, bm dresses, flowers, etc however i am breaking my own rules
its hard because these are big decisions but i can tell you one thing- i ordered ivory and i am so happy that i did- i think ivory is just stunning
Thanks for that..i think I needed some reasurance about the ivory.
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Posted by RB23
Posted by Preshy7
hi date twin- i second guess everything-and i told myself to stop looking at other gowns, bm dresses, flowers, etc however i am breaking my own rules
its hard because these are big decisions but i can tell you one thing- i ordered ivory and i am so happy that i did- i think ivory is just stunning
Thanks for that..i think I needed some reasurance about the ivory.
ditto on the ivory....LOVE it!
but yes, I am just going bonkers...but more with indecision than second guessing though.
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Love the ivory! I am closer to an ivory also - its like pearl white -
the only thing I am not 100% sure about is the dress for my girls but there not ordered yet so i still have time -
and far as CP do everyother table hight low - you can still change that
and as I know we all want out dream wedding - no one shoot me for saying this -buts its one day - as long as your SURE about FH then you have nothing to worry about honey
Goldi1021
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Honey, I lost it a long time ago.
MayBride06
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Posted by Goldi1021
Honey, I lost it a long time ago.
I will confirm this!
October Bliss
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I'm losing it, but not in the same way. I haven't second guessed any of our decisions, but every time I look at the date I freak that there isn't enough time to get things finished. I'm getting ready to meet with florist # 8 & 9. I haven't started looking into chair rental for the ceremony, my OOT BM are having problems finding the dress I picked out to try on. None of the girls have been measured. And I'm worried about having all the money when it comes time for those final payments (it's not that we won't, I'm just a worrier)
hmpena
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Honey, I lost it a long time ago.
Me too!
Beth1210
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it happens to everyone- I have been second guessing my dress latley- my hair
everything
don't worry about it- I think it's just normal
hang in there!
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Thankfully, not me--and that is typical behavior for me-to 2nd guess everything!!!
You know what it is?? There are just sooo many choices out there. Its so hard to choose anything when you have a billion things to choose from. No matter what.. your always going to 2nd guess yourself. Im sure every bride thinks back on their wedding day and thinks 'What if I did this, or what if I went with that instead of this' Its normal. I look back on my engagement parry & wish I did a million things differently. Dont stress. Think about a decision long & hard before you decide to go with it. If you cant stop thining about it, then you know to go with your gut feeling.
