You know what, I still have three months to go and I'm already sick of planning. I wish I had people to delegate to, but I don't have bridesmaids/MOH and my mom is doing what she can. My siste lives in London, so she really can't help much, although she's offered, and my FI is training for the NYC marathon, which will be a month & 1/2 after the wedding, so he's pretty beat most of the time. My nerves are shattered and to top it all off, I turned down two jobs (I work in film production which is pretty time consuming) to have more free time to do wedding stuff and now I have way too much time to think about stuff. I just want all the planning to be over. I want my normal life back. I find myself on edge all the time and I still have months of this to go. ARGH, sorry to go on, but sometimes you gotta vent.
Karen
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IT GET'S BETTER
Thanks Kate, I started jogging and went to visit my sister in London last week, which helped. I've thuoght about doing things for the wedding but I find that it stresses me out more. I'm just a perfectionist AND a control freak!! How lucky is my fiance! ;). I start working next week ( a temp gig ) but it'll keep my mind occupied. Thanks for you advice and support.
For small and reasonable fees, less than a wedding consultant, we'll pick up those shoes that have been dyed, drop off your dry-cleaning, have the invitations weighed and buy the postage, make the final confirmation calls, take the favors to the hall, etc.