Anyone thinking of doing a PRE-newlywed chop?

I really can't stand having my hair long anymore. I never usually grow it too much past my shoulders and it's now like boob length and SOOOO annoying.

I grew it out thinking i would do the 1/2 up with curls, but i can't go more than an hour without getting fed up with having my hair all over my shoulders and chest and having to tie it into a ponytail.

I see so many girls going with a fancier version of their every day hairstyle. I really want to just cut my hair into my normal shoulder length bob and working with that instead.

Any thoughts?

I soooo feel your pain. My hair is longer than I normally have it right now and it's usually in a bun by the time I get on the train. I can't stand it. But I don't know what I'd do to it to make it 'pretty' the day of if I cut it.
That picture is gorgeous though, is that Grace Kelly?

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Posted by Espo22

no way, i need to get a trim now SOOOO bad and i dont even want to lol

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Me too!!! its been so long since I had it trimmed last and I'm holding off even longer this time before I get it cut again.

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Posted by Espo22

no way, i need to get a trim now SOOOO bad and i dont even want to lol

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I need one badly too, but I don't know if I should. I really wanted to grow it out, but my ends are in horrible shape and I know they say you should keep trimming it to keep it healthy, but if I keep trimming it, it takes off the length, so then what the hell am I growing it out for? Do we just have to deal w/the dead ends until a month or so before? I def. want to trim it then just so it looks healthy the day of.....

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by Espo22

no way, i need to get a trim now SOOOO bad and i dont even want to lol

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I need one badly too, but I don't know if I should. I really wanted to grow it out, but my ends are in horrible shape and I know they say you should keep trimming it to keep it healthy, but if I keep trimming it, it takes off the length, so then what the hell am I growing it out for? Do we just have to deal w/the dead ends until a month or so before? I def. want to trim it then just so it looks healthy the day of.....

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it grows faster though to get it cut more often

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by Espo22

no way, i need to get a trim now SOOOO bad and i dont even want to lol

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I need one badly too, but I don't know if I should. I really wanted to grow it out, but my ends are in horrible shape and I know they say you should keep trimming it to keep it healthy, but if I keep trimming it, it takes off the length, so then what the hell am I growing it out for? Do we just have to deal w/the dead ends until a month or so before? I def. want to trim it then just so it looks healthy the day of.....

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hahha yeah...i think it's been about a year since i've last cut my hair. I'm used to cutting it at least every other month! The ends feels so nasty!

This is the normal me. It looks so much more like me than I look now! Sometimes I look in the mirror or at recent pictures and i'm like, who is that?! hahaha

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Posted by jenlen

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by Espo22

no way, i need to get a trim now SOOOO bad and i dont even want to lol

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I need one badly too, but I don't know if I should. I really wanted to grow it out, but my ends are in horrible shape and I know they say you should keep trimming it to keep it healthy, but if I keep trimming it, it takes off the length, so then what the hell am I growing it out for? Do we just have to deal w/the dead ends until a month or so before? I def. want to trim it then just so it looks healthy the day of.....

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hahha yeah...i think it's been about a year since i've last cut my hair. I'm used to cutting it at least every other month! The ends feels so nasty!

This is the normal me. It looks so much more like me than I look now! Sometimes I look in the mirror or at recent pictures and i'm like, who is that?! hahaha

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yeah mine is a disaster right now...But i LOVE the 1st hairstyle you picked

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Posted by jenlen

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Posted by missliss

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Posted by Espo22

no way, i need to get a trim now SOOOO bad and i dont even want to lol

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I need one badly too, but I don't know if I should. I really wanted to grow it out, but my ends are in horrible shape and I know they say you should keep trimming it to keep it healthy, but if I keep trimming it, it takes off the length, so then what the hell am I growing it out for? Do we just have to deal w/the dead ends until a month or so before? I def. want to trim it then just so it looks healthy the day of.....

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hahha yeah...i think it's been about a year since i've last cut my hair. I'm used to cutting it at least every other month! The ends feels so nasty!

This is the normal me. It looks so much more like me than I look now! Sometimes I look in the mirror or at recent pictures and i'm like, who is that?! hahaha

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You look great with short hair. If it's what you want, I would say go for it!

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yeah mine is a disaster right now...But i LOVE the 1st hairstyle you picked

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Which one? the gwen stefani or the Grace Kelly (I added pics hahahaha)

you look really nice with short hair

for me i plan on keeping it long, i have always had long hair. ive cut it a few times and just hated it.. it doesnt look good on me

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Posted by jenlen

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yeah mine is a disaster right now...But i LOVE the 1st hairstyle you picked

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Which one? the gwen stefani or the Grace Kelly (I added pics hahahaha)

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sorry lol Gwen

btw ive had short hair quite a few times, so thats why im like eh ive had short hair alot so i want it long now

i did a pre-newlywed chop a few months ago and i love it shorter. but unfortunately im going to have to pay extra to get extensions the day of to get the look i want.

i think the short cut is gorgeous. espcially gwens style. plus you have that slimming old fashioned dress that looks amazing with short fancy do's.

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Posted by jennandrolo

i did a pre-newlywed chop a few months ago and i love it shorter. but unfortunately im going to have to pay extra to get extensions the day of to get the look i want.

i think the short cut is gorgeous. espcially gwens style. plus you have that slimming old fashioned dress that looks amazing with short fancy do's.

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mine is long but im still getting extensions, my hair is too thin

do it!
you want to be comfortable, and you want to look like YOU.
if you're not happy, cut it.

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by jennandrolo

i did a pre-newlywed chop a few months ago and i love it shorter. but unfortunately im going to have to pay extra to get extensions the day of to get the look i want.

i think the short cut is gorgeous. espcially gwens style. plus you have that slimming old fashioned dress that looks amazing with short fancy do's.

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mine is long but im still getting extensions, my hair is too thin

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yea mine too thats another reason. no matter how much spray i put it falls flat quick.

I'm a long hair girl to the core (my hair isnt even that long and I chopped a lot off in August) but I probably won't get another serious haircut until after the wedding, just because I don't know what I'm doing with my hair.

I think you look gorgeous in your avatar, but if you want short hair and are happy with one of the shorter hairstyles then go for it! You want to look like 'you' in your wedding pictures!