I had a bridesmaid who was not the greatest but tried to give the benefit of the doubt. She was part of the reason my first wedding was called off but I looked past it then I was in her wedding so I figured it was only right to have her in mine. Fh and I discussed how she was going to screw me over etc but she said how she wouldnt. All she had to do is get the dress I paid for and alter it and show up...seriously how hard is that. Well she dropped out because well all in all she is a b*tch and did exactly what we figured she would. I cant even be mad because she was so untrust worthy. she gave the other girls crap when they had my shower. So anyone want to be a bridesmaid? I already have the dress
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awwwwww
the only people you need in your life are the ones that prove they need you in theirs! what size is the dress?? ... i'll be your BM ... cheer up girlie ... you're wedding will be beautiful!!
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:( im so sorry!!!
Soon2bMrsB91511
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I'm so sorry for that babe!! Don't worry, I have an uneven BP, as do many other girls, and its not about uniformity....its about celebrating with those closest to you!
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Posted by Soon2bMrsB91511
I'm so sorry for that babe!! Don't worry, I have an uneven BP, as do many other girls, and its not about uniformity....its about celebrating with those closest to you!
she wasnt worth the stress but i have 190 dress with noone to wear it
PeaceLoveWedding
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Maybe someone will buy it. Why don't you try doing a for sale post?
mtk1605
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its a pretty dress, maybe try to sell it on craigslist? may be a perfect prom dress?
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sell it on ebay!!!!!!! Dont stress out over it-- my numbers for BP will prob be uneven too and I dont care because it's all about meeeeeeeeee, as it will be all about you that day!!!!!!
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It's a very pretty dress!! I'm doing the same color also!! Try & sell it. Or do you have another friend/family member to consider to wear it? What size is it, I'll be a BM lol ..Hope it works out girl
IrishAli
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So sorry
People suck
Try to sell it on eBay?
rosatemp
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Ugh that sucks I'm so sorry...I had a girl drop out last week because she can't afford it and as much as I understand I'm still alittle upset but we understand..we aren't replacing her so now I hav 2 guys with 1 girl walking in because I do not wan to ask any1 last minute to bs in my wedding...so I can kinda relate to you since I've already bought all ther personized gifts so I am soo done...maybe you can hav 2 guys with 1 girl..I know it sucks tho
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I'll wear it!
anjelagain
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Um, how did she have you cancel your first wedding?? Was it to the same guy??
anjelagain
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Yeah, our BP is uneven, i could care less lol!!
Im not even officially counting my sister as a BM till last minute, I have a questionable too, whatever, put your orange dress on and walk down the aisle.. or dont!
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So sorry to hear that....
Some people suck and only think of themselves....
Donate it to girls who can't afford prom dresses and get the tax right off. I donated the first wedding gown I bought, that I later regretted. It helped with last year's taxes... LOL
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ugh i'm sorry that you have to deal with this. but like the other girls said, try to sell it.
cait625
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i'm sorry... weddings can bring out the best and worst in people
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I wouldn't mind being a bridesmaid if you really felt like you wanted/needed one BUT I just want you to think about if you want to look back at wedding pictures and think 'who was that amazon asian chick again?'
I don't think an uneven bridal party is a bad thing at all. Try to sell the dress or donate it for a tax write off like the other girls suggested
I'm really sorry you have to deal with bullshish
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Thanks girls. I would love to donate the dress but I am not going to because 3 years ago I wound up donating most of my wedding stuff including 6 bridesmaids dress because of this same girl. She started a huge fight with my ex-fiances whole family saying that i said stuff that I didnt which caused my ex fiances mother to call off the wedding which not only broke my heart but left me with no where to live after all my stuff wound up on their lawn. I refuse to do this again because of this girl so either someone is going to wear the dress and have fun or it is going to sit in my closet (donating another bridesmaid dress just brings back to many bad memories).
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SO SORRY CHICA
Cnt believe this is happenin to u! Why some ppl dont take the whole BM role seriously?!
=-(
I would love to be a BM too but U also have to think of this chica You want to look at ur wedding pics n look everyone U have! not only being 'Whos da spanish short BM?' lol ;P
At the end of the day YOU WILL MARRY UR BEST FRIEND CHICA
