Feeling low ladies...having budget troubles and wondering why I am doing all of this. Im so stressed. Anyone feeling like me?
Sorry dont mean to be a downer...
Steffie
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Every time I think about the bills, yea I some times wish we did......I know its your day and every thing but I know I went way over budget with something and now have to cut back with stuff..... And when I think about it I some times wish I did some thing differently......
littlepixie12
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YES!!! I feel like this sometimes... chin up, it will def get better. Trust me. Just think how happy you will be the day of
aliska21
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GIRLy...that is why i got that superlative...!! most likely to elope last min! omg...i know exactly how u feel..and believe many other brides do ...as well...count everything ...try to get things down cost...cut smth out.... plan ur budget ...i mean look at it again..talk to ur FH..and decide..what you guys wana do.. it really is worth it..i mean a wedding is one of those things that you dream all ur life,..and just to elope sometimes...u can really regret the whole big one...but at the same time have smth very intimate... im doing a small wedding in december....bcoz we are moving and also bcoz of the financial situations..but...we are having a big party and a church...next year..or 2010...but we cutting things down..there..i mean we are not having limos...no crazy fancy flowers.....yep...thats..some of the things..u should consider... but it will work out! i promise! good luck hun!
2009wedding
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Yes and no. I wanted to just elope for a very long time but then having a big wedding grew on me. I wanted to elope cause I hate being stressed out, It would save us money so we could buy a house or a apartment, and I also don't like attention to much. Now that I have been planning my wedding I am glad we didn't elope cause I want a big wedding with all of our family and friends there to support us on our special day. I want my parents to walk me down the aisle. I found out you can't let other people take this away from you and make it stressful for you were you want to do something you really don't want to do but are during it under stress. This will pass and you will see that you are going to be happy that you didn't go and elope. I know I am. I have said I wanted to for two years and all cause of the stress and the drama but in the end I see that I would have regretted it and would hated that I did that. I am happy with having a big wedding and planning a big wedding. I am looking forward to seeing all our families and friends the day of all together.
MakingofaMulligan
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I definitely wish we had went off and done something small. We did a big wedding, because my Mom wanted me to have one. And I know it will be worth it in the end.
flairforfashion
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Only when things seem unbearable. Other than that, I am stoked to have my big fat wedding!
