FH and I are, I have no idea what he is doing, I gave him a book, we got in our wishing well.
We were told to use some of the stuff from the original vows and use that as a starting point. There are a ton of websites out there that give you direction. What I have been doing is writing down little things that come to me and have been compiling them, I figure in the end I will just put it all together. I figure no one will understand me anyway, I will probably be blubbering!! GL!