Anyone's FH going AWAY for the B Party, but they aren't?

leese Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:25 AM

Anyone's FH going AWAY for the B Party, but they aren't?

My FH is going to Vegas.

I had two wonderful showers so I know he deserves a good time (ugggh, 'vegas' good time?)....

But is anyone else in my boat? FH going away for the B Party and you are staying closer to home?

I heard it's good if you do it the same weekend so you aren't 'thinking' about their activities...but if you are only doing a one night thing.... how do you make the weekend go by? He's going from Thursday through Sunday!!!

I know I'm being petty and jealous... but Z100 just made me super anxious talking about Scary's B Party in VEGAS!

Beth1210 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:33 AM

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ours are different weekends- mine was local - his is away

the weekend he goes away I am getting a facial and doing girl stuff with my sister

I had a shower and a bach party- he deserves fun too!

SOON TO BE MRS. B Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:35 AM

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although nothing is booked yet or set in stone, from th elooks of it he is def going away...some of his friends even threw out mexico....and i will prob wind up being local... i didn't even think about being sad whiel he's gone but I guess I will do soemthing liek beth said and hang out with my girls... four days will go by so fast!

JessicaM. Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:37 AM

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HI Lisa

as of right now I actually have the reverse going on (I am going to Vegas and fh will probably stay closer to home)

he will actually be working most of the time (tax season) but then again, I am sure he doesn't have the same worries that I would have.

You're not being petty- and there is nothing wrong with being a little jealous (I can be VERY jealous sometimes). It seems like this is really bothering you, and you don't seem like the type of girl to freak out whenever your man goes out with his boys.

people are always going to talk- and a dirty raunchy BP can happen NO MATTER WHERE IT IS...that is on the guy- if he's going to do something, it doesn't matter if it's at a strip bar AT the New York or IN New York.

If you are troubled, I really suggest making plans to occupy your time and mind. get your friends and family organized to do a BATTLE OF THE BAD THOUGHTS weekend and celebrate YOUR life a little.

if you want to hang out in the city, let me know. I'll be glad to pitch in and help you thing happy thoughts. Just remember

FRANK LOVES LISA!!

PrincessConsuela Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:37 AM

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my fh is going to south beach.

i am just going to hang with the girls in the city.
i know im in for a few weekends of going out for my batchelorette party. I know im getting more then one party.

yes i would like to go away but that is not an option for me.
i am not worried he has been away before without me with just the guys in cancun, lasvegas, and this year for his bestfriends batchelor party in Florida.
now its his turn.

ChrissynRicky Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:44 AM

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We're opposite:

FH is going to AC, and I'm the one GOING AWAY - VEGAS BABY!

leese Posted: Nov 17, 2005 09:58 AM

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Posted by JessicaM.

FRANK LOVES LISA!!

Thanks!!!!

I trust HIM. Completely. If you knew him, you'd know what I am talking about. Loyal to a FAULT. And he deserves to have a good time. He has a dangerous job with bad hours.

And it's not like we are together all the time, cause, well, we don't live in the same state. But the thought of him going to Vegas for his B Party and the ensuing activites gets me so emotional!!!!

And I am SOOOOO not that girl. I've never EVER been because I don't like it when couples tell each other they 'can't do this' or 'can't do that'... but still.....

I think I will do my B party the same weekend... but I'm going to have to do more things on my own or something cause traditioanlly my friends have done 'one-night' things in the City or AC or something.

I'm turning green by the second!!!!!

CJStein Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:10 AM

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My FH already had his bachelor party in Vegas...I will be doing something locally. I was a little bit sad that I didn't get to go away, but I can't even think about going away so close to the wedding. We'll still have fun in NYC!

MayBride06 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:11 AM

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He wants to go to Amsterdam and i want to go out to dinner with my girls!

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:15 AM

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Yup, FH and the boys have to go to Canada, because his BM (his brother) will only be 19 by then. Me, I figure there are a ton of places to go in NYC, so we don't have to go to Canada. I do have one Jr bridesmaid, but she looks older than she really is.

Alilp Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:27 AM

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I don't see what the problem is, unless you don't trust him.

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:28 AM

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Neither one of us will be going away... FH told me he wants to drink beer and play video games for his B party... fine by me.

For the girls, I have a Jr who is 8, and my MOH in her 50's, and also want to include my mom, so I want to do either a spa day or a winery trip. With just the BMs and maybe some other friends we will do bar night.

No strippers for either of us, neither of us are into that.

leese Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:32 AM

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Posted by Alilp

I don't see what the problem is, unless you don't trust him.

it's not trust, it's jealousy...

kaklesmay Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:36 AM

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FH will prob do Vegas, they are planning it now. I will stay here.

ETA: Yeah, Im jealous! I wanna party in Vegas Baby! Maybe next year.

MrsFelix Posted: Nov 17, 2005 10:47 AM

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We are the opposite. He's staying local and I'm going somewhere, just don't know where!! They won't tell me.

But even when he talks about doing his own thing I get jealous too!!!

I can't explain it either, but I totally understand how you feel. I would suggest you make plans to stay at a friends house or a weekend with your girlfriends. Do something with them that you haven't done in a while and enjoy you're alone time. Have a slumber party at your house. Don't worry, it's more common than you think. Just remember he loves YOU!!!

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 17, 2005 11:50 AM

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Yep. They are going to Vegas. Good for them. I am having 2 Bachelorette Parties. One in NY and one in AC - BON JOVI BABY (AGAIN!!!) - two weeks before the wedding.