Anyone's fiancee already have a child from previous relationship?

actresscye Posted: Feb 15, 2006 06:34 PM

Anyone's fiancee already have a child from previous relationship?

I've searched these boards and didn't find anything. I was just curious if anyone else is going into a marriage like this? Or am I the odd one out? lol .... any hands? Just curious if there is any minor drama like I'm having - making me sad a little ever since she found out we are getting married... ugh!

meniasta Posted: Feb 15, 2006 06:36 PM

Re: Anyone's fiancee already have a child from previous relationship?

no......my fh does not have a child but if you love each other nothing should stand on your way..and don't worry

actresscye Posted: Feb 15, 2006 06:39 PM

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She is just trying to make his life a living hell all of a sudden. She used to have him wrapped around her finger. Now she is working his mother - redeveloping a relationship with his mother and doing all kinds of things to upset him. She took him to court and had a letter sent to his job because he was 2 days late for a $5.00 payment on health insurance ---- again --- making his life a living hell. She is working his mom so much that his mom is even calling him to get him to talk to her more often because she is trying to be 'good'. I have a good relationship with his mother as well, but she seems to be meddling a lot b/c she loves her granddaughter to death. So I guess I am having this feeling 'less worthy' moment right now - like that mother is better than me b/c she has that 'link' you know?

Sunrise813 Posted: Feb 15, 2006 06:40 PM

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Posted by actresscye

I've searched these boards and didn't find anything. I was just curious if anyone else is going into a marriage like this? Or am I the odd one out? lol .... any hands? Just curious if there is any minor drama like I'm having - making me sad a little ever since she found out we are getting married... ugh!

I don't think you are alone, there a few girls on here who are marrying someone with kids.

Hang in there and lots of

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Feb 15, 2006 06:42 PM

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While I am not in your situation, I think it's safe to say that you are not the only woman on this site marrying a man who has children. I wish I had advice, but I'd like to give you

ajaysmom Posted: Feb 15, 2006 06:42 PM

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Hi! I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time! For me the shoe is on the other foot! I have the child! As far as the mother is concerned don't let her stress you out! And NEVER feel 'less worthy' You are going to be a part of the child's life wether she likes it or not! So you have to put your feelings aside about her right now and only worry about you and your FI child! GOOD LUCK!!!!

missgwife Posted: Feb 15, 2006 07:29 PM

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Posted by actresscye

I've searched these boards and didn't find anything. I was just curious if anyone else is going into a marriage like this? Or am I the odd one out? lol .... any hands? Just curious if there is any minor drama like I'm having - making me sad a little ever since she found out we are getting married... ugh!

You have FM