apparently im clueless

ok... please help me because im freaking out.

3.5 months to go... ALL i have done is:
hall/church
flowers
ordered gown
ordered bm dresses
dj
photo/video
block hotels
favors

I know i need
WP gifts
limos
invites


what else? i feel like there are 1927346235 things i dont know about. For example, i just saw a post that reminded me i need a garter!!!

Your veil/headpiece
Toasting flutes
Cake cutter
Money box/bag

That's all i can think of right now.

edited: sorry didnt see you had that already duh


edited again: what about hair/makeup, programs, menus

cardbox!
seating cards

placecards?
programs?
menus?
bathroom baskets?
slipper baskets?
OOT bags?
garter
cake topper
cake design
parent gifts
FG dress
tuxes
hotel block
postage for invites
finalize guest list
hair and makeup
slip for gown
veil
headpiece
shoes
jewelry
guestbook
ring pillow
unity candle
cardbox
MOB/MOG dress

yep... have none of these things... didnt think about half of them...

im scared, but keep em coming!

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Posted by Lsorrent

placecards?
programs?
menus?
bathroom baskets?
slipper baskets?
OOT bags?
garter
cake topper
cake design
parent gifts
FG dress
tuxes
hotel block
postage for invites
finalize guest list
hair and makeup
slip for gown
veil
headpiece
shoes
jewelry
guestbook
ring pillow
unity candle
cardbox
MOB/MOG dress

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I am def notebooking this thread- Laura, you are organized!!!

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Posted by Lsorrent

placecards?
programs?
menus?
bathroom baskets?
slipper baskets?
OOT bags?
garter
cake topper
cake design
parent gifts
FG dress
tuxes
hotel block
postage for invites
finalize guest list
hair and makeup
slip for gown
veil
headpiece
shoes
jewelry
guestbook
ring pillow
unity candle
cardbox
MOB/MOG dress

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really i have three of these things... i may go vomit

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Posted by APastries2010

yep... have none of these things... didnt think about half of them...

im scared, but keep em coming!

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maybe you will win a free doc on sunday!

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Posted by stinenandy2010

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Posted by APastries2010

yep... have none of these things... didnt think about half of them...

im scared, but keep em coming!

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maybe you will win a free doc on sunday!

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ha if only!

this is my to do list.. it's marked off by months so just ignore those

**May 13, 2009
-Set Date- DONE
-Set Budget- DONE
-Prepare Preliminary Guest List- DONE
-Ceremony Site/Church- DONE
-Reception Site- DONE
-Ask Bridal Party- DONE
-Begin “Wedding Workout”- DONE
-Create Engagement Party Checklist-DONE
-Eparty invites -DONE



**June 13, 2009
-Call Engagement party non-RSVPers-DONE
-Bridesmaids info sent to Maids of Honor-DONE
-Buy Wedding Planner-DONE



**July 13, 2009
-Engagement “Thank-You’s”-DONE





**August 13, 2009
-Photographer-DONE
-Videographer-DONE
-DJ-DONE
-Ceremony Music-DONE




**September 13, 2009
-Finalize Guest List-DONE
-Obtain Save the Dates-DONE
-Take STD pics-DONE
-Register-DONE





**October 13, 2009
-Select Color Scheme-DONE
-Have addresses collected
-Officiant





**November 13, 2009
-Send out Save the Dates
-Take Engagement Photos-DONE
-Shuttles/Morning after Brunch
-Rehearsal Dinner
-Update Wedding Website
-Book Hotel
-Payment to Woodwinds



**December 13, 2009
-Order Wedding Gown
-Update Registry




**January 13, 2010
-Book Limos
-Schedule Hair Trials
-Florist
-Give out guests lists for Bridal Shower & Bachelorette
-DOC
-Decide if doing extra hour/bar afterwards
-Review Guest List
-Order Bridesmaids & Jr. BM dresses




**February 13, 2010
-MOB & MOG order dresses
-Obtain Invitations
-Update Registry



**March 13, 2010
-Buy Wedding bands
-Order Wedding Cake
-Decide on favors/mini pies
-Cocktail Napkins
-Update Wedding Website



**April 13, 2010
-Purchase headpieces
-List of Duties
-Order Flowergirl dress



**May 13, 2010
-Purchase Day of Jewelry
-Purchase Ring Pillow
-Send Invitations to Calligrapher
-B-pics
-Aisle Runner




**June 13, 2010
-Stamps & Seals for Invitations
-Purchase Unity Candle/Sand Ceremony
-Schedule day of hair/makeup/nails for Bridal Party
-Gather all hotel cards/direction cards/etc.
-Just Married Sign
-Brunch & RD Confirmed
-Update Wedding Registry




**July 13, 2010
-Purchase table cameras
-Decide what will be thrown after ceremony
-Plan ceremony
-Select readers for ceremony
-Obtain decorations for ceremony
-Start Wedding Gown Fittings
-Decide on bustle
-Purchase undergarments
-Wedding day shoes
-Shoes for reception
-Purchase garter
-Purchase Bridal Party shoes
-Purchase Cake Topper
-Schedule Ceremony Rehearsal
-Book rehearsal dinner
-Get rehearsal dinner invitations
-Get flower girl basket
-Decide on pictures
-Purchase guestbook
-Invitations for Bridesmaids Luncheon
-Wedding bands out to be engraved
-Update Guest List
-Update Wedding Website





**August 13, 2010

-Purchase Bridal Party Gifts
-Purchase any Bridal Party extras
-Purchase parent gifts
-Meet with officiant
-Create ceremony programs
-Order tuxes
-Finalize Menu
-Order Grooms Cake
-Finalize floral details
-Make “We Do” letters for Cake Table
-Give Ceremony Readers copies of readings
-Send out Wedding Announcement to Local Newspaper
-Something old, something borrowed, something blue
-Decide how we want tables decorated
-Buy “Day Of” Hoodie & Sweats
-Babysitter for Reception
-Cake Topper
-OOT Packages
-Photo Montage
-Invites Out
-Update Registry
-Update Wedding Website





**September 13, 2010

-All sheets to DJ
-Must take photo list
-Final vendor appointments
-Bridesmaids Luncheon
-Make table numbers
-Stands for table numbers
-Photos that we want displayed at RH
-Card box
-Bathroom baskets
-Second dress fitting
-Floral preservation kit
-Wedding gift for Eric
-Out of town bags/baskets
-Make menus
-Double check that all ceremony needs have been purchased
-Send Rehearsal Dinner Invitations
-Name Change Documents
-Begin Working on Schedule
-Order Favors
-Order favor tags & wrapping
-DJ Payment
-Update Wedding Website


**October 13, 2010
-Make sure all Thank Yous have been sent
-Decorating of our hotel room assigned
-Obtain Marriage License
-Final Fitting
-Break in shoes
-Prepare “Day Of” timeline
-Prepare Wedding Box
-Prepare Reception Box
-Call non-RSVPers
-Video Payment
-Makeup trials


**October 20, 2010
-Decide on any extras
-Finalize Seating





**October 31, 2010
-Final payments and review to vendors
-Day of emergency kit
-Speeches & toasts prepared
-Overnight of bouquet
-Thank you cards to Bridal Party
-Designate who will pack items from RH
-Write Vows
-Prepare Empty Bags for Things that needed to be taken home from RH
-Work out Schedule for Distribution at RD
-Wrap Favors
-Make place cards
-Update Wedding Website




**November 6, 2010
-Drop everything off to reception hall
-Place tips for vendors in envelopes and assign tippers
-Pick up wedding gown





**November 13, 2010!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

-GET MARRIED!!!!!!