We had run out of e-party cards (The cupcake ones that says life is sweet) and fsil had bought cards that were cute, purple, with hearts. So, we sent out those cards to those who we couldn't send out the other ones too... WOuld you believe I have a friend who emailed me the following:
Jenny, I just wanted to say that since I recieved, possibly your 'List B' invite to your engagement party, ____ and I will not be attending. With all we've gone through to know that I was not considered first on your invite list, just bothers me to no end. I saw Mike's invitation and I know that it obviously was a pity invite. All the best
I responded with the following:
Check the postmark on both the invites. You recieved them both the same day and have the same RSVP. We ran out of cards and it was too late to order more. All the best, Jenny
UPDATE: Her email reply
Okay. But shouldn't I have been at least at the top of the list to get the other invitation? I just didn't understand. _____ and I may be away then anyway.
Me to her (About an hour ago because I really was still lost) >Hey, What is the difference between an invite thats pink or purple? Not everyone got the same one as it is. We sent mike a blue on cause hes a boy. Have fun on Vacation. We'll be too busy partying to think of you that day! Jenny
Her Response: Thanks. We'll be too busy too probably. It's a 7 day cruise. We didn't book yet though. By the way, I loved the cupcake card. I think I was just jealous because, cupcakes... how darn cute are they? Is that your wedding theme? Talk to you later hun!
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Me:
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Wowwwwww.... don't you wish her invite had gotten lost in the mail?
I just said that to my mother haha.. Shes chewing off my ear about going dress shoppin saturday (I think shes more excited than me!)
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Yikes!!!!! People are soo sensitive!
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You know what though, she hadn't even congratulated us oNCE or acknoledged that we got engagd. Granted this is the same friend I posted about a feww months back that I Was relly upset because she was engaged and cheating on her fiance with a coworker.
I emailed it to my mom and she thinks shes just jealous... Sad though...
I too agree with your mom. Especially after your updated response from her.
Seriously, what makes someone be at the top of the list? Our stuff is alphabetical and my MOH gets the last invite because her last name starts with a 'Z.' That doesn't make her any less special. Jesus. I can't believe some people.
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You know what though, she hadn't even congratulated us oNCE or acknoledged that we got engagd. Granted this is the same friend I posted about a feww months back that I Was relly upset because she was engaged and cheating on her fiance with a coworker.
I emailed it to my mom and she thinks shes just jealous... Sad though...
I too agree with your mom. Especially after your updated response from her.
Seriously, what makes someone be at the top of the list? Our stuff is alphabetical and my MOH gets the last invite because her last name starts with a 'Z.' That doesn't make her any less special. Jesus. I can't believe some people.
To be honest, we just had the names written down as we thought of them and that was all it was. Nothing special lol
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UNBELIEVABLE!!!! love your response though, i hope she can taste the stubble on her knees from having her foot down her throat!!!!!
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Wow is it just me or is her response to your reply even worse, I mean to not even apologize. This one is a real piece of work!!!!!!!!!!!!
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OMG W-A-C-K-O!!!! Who does that? or who would even have the nerve to say that.....x her off the list!
or it could be a jealousy thing...but still.
Your response was classic! very well put
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wow....... that is soo crazy!! i'm sorry that she did that to you- lol i would never have the nerve to call someone out on that- its surprising that she even found out. is her last name lower in the alphabet? if so then, that could be another reason, and explain why she didn't get the fancier ones. really shi**y though
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now she must just feel stupid and is saying they'll be away to annoy you.
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No, what happened was my mom and I broke up the names on the list and started to fill out the cards. So we had like half on my list and half on hers without invites! And so we used the other pretty ones to invite the rest..
I didnt even think twice about it..we didn't have a a and b list it was only those invited to the wedding
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We had run out of e-party cards (The cupcake ones that says life is sweet) and fsil had bought cards that were cute, purple, with hearts. So, we sent out those cards to those who we couldn't send out the other ones too... WOuld you believe I have a friend who emailed me the following:
Jenny, I just wanted to say that since I recieved, possibly your 'List B' invite to your engagement party, ____ and I will not be attending. With all we've gone through to know that I was not considered first on your invite list, just bothers me to no end. I saw Mike's invitation and I know that it obviously was a pity invite. All the best
I responded with the following:
Check the postmark on both the invites. You recieved them both the same day and have the same RSVP. We ran out of cards and it was too late to order more. All the best, Jenny
UPDATE: Her email reply
Okay. But shouldn't I have been at least at the top of the list to get the other invitation? I just didn't understand. _____ and I may be away then anyway.
You've got to be kidding me. Isn't she embarrassed to say that??!! EVen if you are CRAZY enough to think that way, certainly don't SAY it!!! geez.
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ewww, thats rude! be lucky you even got an invite.
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Wow that is the craziest thing I've ever heard. Maybe your better off she doesn't come.
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Wow! That is insane!!!
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WOW, I wouldnt even want her there anymore, it does sound like jealousy
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I can't believe that is the way she handles that... I would never have the audacity to do that to someone!
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WOW, someone takes themself a little to seriously how does she know the invitations didnt come in an assortment? she automatically made herself a victim!
you handled it perfectly tho.
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WOW, someone takes themself a little to seriously how does she know the invitations didnt come in an assortment? she automatically made herself a victim!
you handled it perfectly tho.
I know!!! Grrrrrr She messaged me back
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Posted by MrsFazz2B
We had run out of e-party cards (The cupcake ones that says life is sweet) and fsil had bought cards that were cute, purple, with hearts. So, we sent out those cards to those who we couldn't send out the other ones too... WOuld you believe I have a friend who emailed me the following:
Jenny, I just wanted to say that since I recieved, possibly your 'List B' invite to your engagement party, ____ and I will not be attending. With all we've gone through to know that I was not considered first on your invite list, just bothers me to no end. I saw Mike's invitation and I know that it obviously was a pity invite. All the best
I responded with the following:
Check the postmark on both the invites. You recieved them both the same day and have the same RSVP. We ran out of cards and it was too late to order more. All the best, Jenny
UPDATE: Her email reply
Okay. But shouldn't I have been at least at the top of the list to get the other invitation? I just didn't understand. _____ and I may be away then anyway.
You've got to be kidding me. Isn't she embarrassed to say that??!! EVen if you are CRAZY enough to think that way, certainly don't SAY it!!! geez.
I had a friend once who was mad because, You know those forwards that say 'Send to your Top 7 girl friends'? Well, she was third on the list. And I remember that because I didn't understand why she was so upset....
