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Are we really not allowed to....

Original post by Jsquared279

Talk to FH the day of the wedding??? Obviously FH and I will be separated, he in the hotel with his GMs and his family and me at my Mom's house with my BMs and my family! I was planning on calling him/texting him the morning of the wedding to say good morning and I love him and that I cannot wait to be his wife. But my FH, my sister (MOH) and my friend (BM) says that I am not allowed to talk to him before the wedding at all?!??! Is that true?!?!? That kind of makes me sad lol! Let me know your thoughts and or what your impression of the tradition is? Thanks!
littlepixie12 Posted:

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I never heard of that ... I thought you just werent allowed to see him?

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by DrWho

DH and I stayed home the night before the wedding, because we were too cheap to get rooms. We took pics beforehand. We're still married.



my kinda girl!
Future Mulligan Posted:

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i dont believe in that stuff at all, so whether its true or not it doesnt mean much to me do what YOU want not what tradition says....

we are seeing eachother before the ceremony - and FH saw my dress - iguess our marriage is doomed

i dont know, i think all those superstitions are stupid but thats JMO some of them are cute but i really dont believe that something bad will happen if you sleep with your FH the night before, or talk to him the day of the wedding, or see him before the ceremony....that stuff is irrelevant in a marriage and relationship
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i dont believe in that stuff at all, so whether its true or not it doesnt mean much to me do what YOU want not what tradition says....

we are seeing eachother before the ceremony - and FH saw my dress - iguess our marriage is doomed

i dont know, i think all those superstitions are stupid but thats JMO some of them are cute but i really dont believe that something bad will happen if you sleep with your FH the night before, or talk to him the day of the wedding, or see him before the ceremony....that stuff is irrelevant in a marriage and relationship



haha... i thought i was the only crazy one on here for showing FH my dress yay! im not alone
Jsquared279 Posted:

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Posted by Future Mulligan

i dont believe in that stuff at all, so whether its true or not it doesnt mean much to me do what YOU want not what tradition says....

we are seeing eachother before the ceremony - and FH saw my dress - iguess our marriage is doomed

i dont know, i think all those superstitions are stupid but thats JMO some of them are cute but i really dont believe that something bad will happen if you sleep with your FH the night before, or talk to him the day of the wedding, or see him before the ceremony....that stuff is irrelevant in a marriage and relationship



Your marriage is NOT doomed!!! HEHE! FH and I are trying to uphold some traditions for the wedding, ie not seeing each other before the ceremony and FH is very adamant about not seeing my dress. However, we WILL be speaking the day of to say good morning and calm each others' nerves! So I am very happy about that!! Also I do sometimes feel these traditions are special yet silly...I mean FH and I have lived together for 2 years and we obv sleep together! Yet, we are still trying to be 'traditional'
Celeste617 Posted:

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I don't know about that. I'm definitely going to be in contact with FH the morning of - especially to make sure everyone is on time!

gina409 Posted:

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i always just thought u could not see him b4 the ceremony..i plan on talking on the phone with it through out the day..jmo though

MrsInglima Posted:

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I've never heard of that, but I think we were going o do it anyway. We will both be so busy, and I think it will make us seeing each other for the first time that much special. If you want to talk to him, though, why not? Just do it!

Camroy Posted:

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I've heard that you can't see each other before. However, I was once told that the reason for that is so that you don't get into a fight beforehand and therefore not go through with the wedding. If that's the reason you can't see each other then you probably shouldn't talk to each other either. Depending on when the superstition started, they probably didn't have the technology we have and therefore if they didn't see each other then they couldn't talk.

Here's a website with somesuperstitions

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