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Original post by meghan13

taking your FH's last name?

mrsq2be Posted:

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Posted by MrsTarricone2B

Yes! Even though mine is better than his!!



I agree! i like mind better, but he wants me to take his. I dont have much of a choice haha
IrishAli Posted:

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I am not. We both have careers and we aren't super young (28 and 32). I think I may have felt differently a few years ago, but I asked him if he would want to change his and become someone new, and he agreed. Kids will have my last name as their middle name, and have his last name.

I had been ok with hyphenation for me (not the kiddies), but his last name is so long (13 letters as opposed to my five), so we opted out of that. He can't even fit his name on some forms, I would be screwed!!!
BrideToBe2011 Posted:

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Yes! I'm goine from being at the beginning of the line (A) to the end (W)!!

mollygurl24 Posted:

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Not fully. I'm hyphenating. I love my last name, so there is no way I am completing giving it up. By doing so, I feel like I would lose something. Fh, told me the decision was entirely mine, so i figured hyphenating was the way to go.

Melissa1012 Posted:

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Yes I am, and luckily he has a normal last name -- Donnelly! I have to say though, that I am definetly a little sad about losing my last name
celticbride Posted:

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I am doing it because that is what we are 'supposed to do'. Not happy about it as it is a very common name and i like my name. But I don't want our kids to have a different name.

meghan13 Posted:

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I'm excited to have my new name. It is said to give up my last name now though. It does feel like a part of me

Chanwich Posted:

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only socially. I don't mind going by Mrs. Smith, but all of my professional things are in my maiden name, all of my papers that I've published are in my maiden name, and it would just be a PITA to try and change all that. So legally I'll still be me, but socially I'll be Mrs Smith.

The fact that his last name is Smith also made me not really want to take it since my last name is more unique than his
chreesta Posted:

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Yes sir-e-bob
DoctorDani Posted:

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Posted by Chanwich

only socially. I don't mind going by Mrs. Smith, but all of my professional things are in my maiden name, all of my papers that I've published are in my maiden name, and it would just be a PITA to try and change all that. So legally I'll still be me, but socially I'll be Mrs Smith.

The fact that his last name is Smith also made me not really want to take it since my last name is more unique than his



Chanwich, I totally agree with you on this one! My degree, my dissertation, and all my professional presentations are under this name. Also, FH's sister has the same first name as me. I don't want to share the same name as her!
FutureMRS.Benn Posted:

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Yes I am!! I cant wait to be Mrs. Benn!!!!
JandS Posted:

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Classic Convo! FH and I argue about this all the time I love my last name and more importantly my dad! why should I have to lose part of me just because I'm gaining something else? The compromise we've come to is me changing my middle name to my maiden name and taking his last name. I just can't give it up! On the other side, I want to have the same last name as my future kids thus the compromise but if it wasn't for that, I'd probably keep mine shhhhhh lol
suzie411 Posted:

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I know I'm going to end up changing it. But I have struggled with this!!! It's not even that fact that no one can pronounce it, it's just not MY name!!!

KrisCharl Posted:

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it's apparently SOOO important to my FH.. so I'll change it to make him happy :)

it's just a pain cause my medical license is in my madien name along with my perscription license..oh well nothing some paperwork wont fix..

i always wanted to be italian haha
Moonmist09 Posted:

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absolutely! FH is mega old school and would probably have a heart attack if i didn't. he already does when i play around and tell him i won't!

leighlo1226 Posted:

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Posted by mrsg2be11

Yes! I'm totally old school. I've also been practicing my signature for the past few years, I've almost perfected my script 'G'



I'm going to be a Mrs. G too!! But i hateeee writing G's in script lol i'm going to miss my L
mrsg2be11 Posted:

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Posted by allinik

Def thinking about it... but if I do my last name will be a male bodily fluid. Yes- seriously.



Mine will be Goenner. Yes, it rhymes with boner
allornil Posted:

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I am. I'm bored of Lee. lol

mrsg2be11 Posted:

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Posted by mrsg2be11

Yes! I'm totally old school. I've also been practicing my signature for the past few years, I've almost perfected my script 'G'



I'm going to be a Mrs. G too!! But i hateeee writing G's in script lol i'm going to miss my L



OMG G's are the WORST! my C is so much easier! My G is a script/print hybrid
Colcas2011 Posted:

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i am- i am kind of excited about it. i will be colleen castellano

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