Are you and your FH alot alike?

Or are you opposite? What is difference about the 2 of you (beside the obvious)? and What is the same?


Fh and I are the same in which we are both such nervous people. I think fh is worse. But we are both crazy nervous.

The way we are different is that FH is shy. I am not. Of course I could be shy maybe at first but I'm a pretty loud girl. Very opinionated!

we are definitely alot alike- we are both very stubborn but very loyal.

he is the best!!

Same:
We both don't drink - we both don't know how to dance- our ideal evening is making dinner together renting a video or playing games or having friends over - we worry about things - both very loyal

Different:
He is very quiet and shy - not very talkative (except when its just the two of us) - I am extremely talkative - i am assertive - not at all shy. He's also big into technology/computers and i still don't know how to turn on the dvd player! I love to read he doesnt that sort of thing! I am extremely stubborn!

--edited b/c of buggies post reminded me of more

I think we are very similiar...we both feel the same way about alot things but have our differences on some as well. As far as personality is concerned he is a bit more stubburn than I am...when he wants somethign done his way...it takes alot to get him to budge...but then again we're both Gemini's so it could be both of us that won't budge...

I think our similarities suprised the the h3ll out of the both of us considering the 16-year age difference. We both love to eat (both Italian) and we have a lot of the same beliefs and values. We both like to play sports, but music is our stronger point. We both love to watch TV or movies and just relax/be lazy. And of course, we work together so there's a commonality, we both have a good work ethic. Oh, and with certain things we're both anally obsessive about how things look in our apartment.

As far as differences he's a Mets fan while I root for the Yankees. He's def funnier and more lovable than I am, I tend to be shy and withdrawn which people sometimes think is snobby. Lol, plus the 13' height difference and the fact that I've got really long hair and he shaves his head. Also, he smokes and I wish he would quit!

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Posted by cindyandkevin

I think our similarities suprised the the h3ll out of the both of us considering the 16-year age difference. We both love to eat (both Italian) and we have a lot of the same beliefs and values. We both like to play sports, but music is our stronger point. We both love to watch TV or movies and just relax/be lazy. And of course, we work together so there's a commonality, we both have a good work ethic. Oh, and with certain things we're both anally obsessive about how things look in our apartment.

As far as differences he's a Mets fan while I root for the Yankees. He's def funnier and more lovable than I am, I tend to be shy and withdrawn which people sometimes think is snobby. Lol, plus the 13' height difference and the fact that I've got really long hair and he shaves his head. Also, he smokes and I wish he would quit!

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Wow...13 inch height difference???

How tall is he compared to you?

we are alot alike we both like to sit home as a family with our daughter and watch her grow and learn and do new things. We also like to go out with friends and do things with them. Both like to watch movies. Both like to just have fun together.

Differnces are that he jokes around about everything which is fine but when I am trying to have a serious conversation with him he makes jokes about things and that annoys me

difference: Matt is cool, calm, and collected. Im the biggest worry freak, stresser.

similarity: we LOVE life!!! I know that sounds chessy but we both love to have fun and take advantage of all great opportunities. Also, we are major travel bugs!!!

Same: We're both very laid back and don't stress that much. We love to travel and explore new places. Love road trips! Love to act silly!

Different: I like going out to nice dinners, he could care less. He's very into music (used to be in a band) and cringes when I listen to Lite FM (it's fun to sing to!)

we have many similar interest, but VERY different personalities. I think it has surprised many people that we lasted this long and are even getting married.

the thing is, we complement each other pretty well...I open him up and he keeps me 'in check' (I can be a little TOO much, I know)...a lot of the differences I see in him are things I admire and would like to be more like, and I think it's vice versa....my FH is one of the only people that knows me and understands me for ALL of the things that I am...the good and the bad (both he knows so well) and I see those things in him too.

As the years go by I hope we keep challenging each other to live a great life and be the best people we can be...he teaches me and he makes me stronger....

if that is what difference brings...I am all for it!

DIfferent in many ways..

FI..very laid back lets things roll off of his back, neat, low key

ME..high strung, messy, very sensitive

we have many things in common..but still many differences too-
I am more of a planner he is more go with the flow and spontaneous...although i have to say I am getting better and so is he... our differences are more cultural which i like...but there is still some stuff I am getting used to

we are both very stubborn!!

We are night and day!!!

He's laidback, relaxed and I'm super energized!

He's so relaxed and calm meanwhile
I can't sit still......and i'm a worry wart!

But we have the best of time together

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Posted by JessicaM.

we have many similar interest, but VERY different personalities. I think it has surprised many people that we lasted this long and are even getting married.

the thing is, we complement each other pretty well...I open him up and he keeps me 'in check' (I can be a little TOO much, I know)...a lot of the differences I see in him are things I admire and would like to be more like, and I think it's vice versa....my FH is one of the only people that knows me and understands me for ALL of the things that I am...the good and the bad (both he knows so well) and I see those things in him too.

As the years go by I hope we keep challenging each other to live a great life and be the best people we can be...he teaches me and he makes me stronger....

if that is what difference brings...I am all for it!

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That was so well put!! I feel the same way but I'm not good at expressing myself!! Thats so sweet!!