Just wondering if you or your FH are friends with any ex-boyfriends/girlfriends...
Will you invite him/her to your wedding?
I am actually friends with an ex. Although my FH tolerates it I know he doesn't love it. However, when we made our guest list and I left him off he said that since he is my friend I should invite him.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I did have an ex that I was still friends with, but over time, we just kinda parted ways...
I think it depends on how good your friendship is! If you are very close & cant pic them NOT being at your wedding, then of course invite them... but if they are more of a aquaintance, I would not invite b/c I wouldnt want to do that to FH. Your FH may act like he doesnt care, but I'm sure he does deep down inside
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I always try to put myself in the others shoes... I certainly would not be able to tolerate an ex of FH's being at the wedding... but thats me, I have a jealous personality
MrsDrinkh20
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Same deal here... I had an ex who was a good friend...but right now I dont even know waht country he is in!
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One of my exes(lol) is invited. We went out when we were like 14 so it wasnt so serious. The most recent one is not invited. I cut him off completely when we broke up.
MrsDrinkh20
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smart idea!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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I have 1 friend who I met online when I was like 14, he was 16 ... And he ended up liking me, but I didnt like him... And believe it or not, we're still friends till this day... FH knows him, they actually got along pretty well, but then again, I didnt have a rel with the kid so if he comes to the wedding, its no biggie!
FH & I have been together so long that ex's arent even in the pic at all! We started dating when we were 17/18 so we didnt have many rel's!
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I'm not the jealous type at all and neither is my FH. I guess it helps that we have also been together for 5 years and I haven't been with my ex for over 6 or 7.
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im not friends with my ex's but fh will say hi to his ex's if we see them out. kinda annoying b/c he just doesnt know how to be mean to ppl...lol. his ex cheated on him and then broke up with him and he is still nice to her when he see's her!! on the other hand my ex wont even speak to me if i see him, lol...but thats ok i'd rather not talk to him!! and no, no ex's will be at the wedding either
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wow so you guys are highschool sweethearts. Thats so cool. And Im not bein a cornball about it either. Highschool sweethearts come few and far between-you guys stuck it out for the long haul!
I went through 2 guys in hs hahah-then another 4 after that!!
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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124
wow so you guys are highschool sweethearts. Thats so cool. And Im not bein a cornball about it either. Highschool sweethearts come few and far between-you guys stuck it out for the long haul!
I went through 2 guys in hs hahah-then another 4 after that!!
There were a few breaks up here and there... nothing too major in the whole 6 1/2 yrs we been together! We went thrugh some tough times.... I wouldnt wanna go back and do it over... I like it just where we are now
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Sometimes the things that happen in relationships either make it or break it. Im sure you've heard that one before because people have said it to me plenty of times.
FH and I were just talking about it(if we ever broke up) and he was like well we're getting married, we booked the RH, so now we're going to do this forever. No turning back...kinda scarey!!
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Yea I hear ya... Right after I said 'yes', I like froze and had an anxiety attack... Like am I doing the right thing.... Last thing I would want is a divorce which is way too common these days...
Everytime I get into a fight with FH, I tend to think that way... I have been in a fight with him that lasted this entire weekend and I'm just ready to strangle him at this point
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its so sad...my sister got married about 4 years ago and is getting divorced now...such a common thing..she is a doctor and works awful crazy hours and grew apart from her husband...so awful! They were together since they were 15 and she is now 28..so stinky..but these things happen! Makes you value who you are with and love!
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i was friends with an ex until i got the ring... then he mysteriously disappeared from my life. I'm heartbroken... lol not really. He was my first so there will always be that lil place for him... but as far as being invited to the wedding, not a chance in hell... for him or any of the others. :)
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I am friends with my ex. High School sweet heart, we went away to the same college and dated until about jr. year. We are friends still because we grew up together and he lives down here in Maryland too, Like five minutes away from me and FH. I am not inviting him to the wedding. He asked me if he could come. I won't even consider it.
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i am only frds with one of my ex's and no i dont think that im going to invite them b/c he is like still in love with me and that wouldnt be a great idea
FalNBill
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nope.... never ended good with any of the ex's
Anthonysgirl
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nope not friends!
Ms SunnShinne
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No not any more I completely cut all of them off...
