Are you inviting your FH's guy friend's wives to your BP?

Just curious? I only hang out with them at parties and stuff... they're all from Jersey, but they're fun, and I'd love for them to come to at least part of of BP.

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I didn't...

The ones that we hang out with as couples were invited to the shower, but I didn't include them in the bachelorette.

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oops...for some reason i thought this said RD.

i think either way is fine sarah.

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the ones i like LOL... i mean, if i'm friendly with the girl i will invite her-- if i'm not friendly with the girl and the guy and i are friends then she doesn't get invited-- my FH's cousin's GF is a biatch!!!!!!! so there is NO way she is coming to my BP!

so it depends, it's up to you, it's your party!!

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I did, we all hangout when we get together in the city and since the BP was in the city, I extended the invitation to them.

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If you want to then do it. It seems like you want to.

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It all depends on your realtionship with them. In my case I am very close with some of my FH guy friend's wives/GF (wow that was a mouthful!)


one of my closest friends I met thru FH and she was one of my Bridesmaid, and I am a BM for her Sept 06 weddding

Re: Are you inviting your FH's guy friend's wives to your BP?

2 out of the 4. One I hang out with every week, one I see occasionally and would get my head handed to me if I didn't include her, and the other two live OOT and I've never met either of them.

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no not unless i know them ladies on a one to one basis

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Yeah,

I wouldn't either.

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Posted by Boston&NY2006

I didn't...

The ones that we hang out with as couples were invited to the shower, but I didn't include them in the bachelorette.

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Me too!!

Re: Are you inviting your FH's guy friend's wives to your BP?

I'm inviting them, it's the night of my shower. I know a couple won't come but, I've become really close with one of them so she told me she'll be there.

FH has two good girl friends and he invited them to my bachelorette party for me as well (not that I necessarily didn't want them there but, I didn't invite anyone to his bachelor party...)

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Yes I am but I'm friends with them myself.

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i did out of courtesy -- they're okay people but i never see them unless the guys are present. they told my BM 'no' which is just fine by me. i was kind of hoping they wouldn't come.

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I'm not inviting my FH friends' wifes to be in the BP. They are great fun and all, but we didn't think it was necessary.

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i would def if you enjoy hanging out with them.....why not

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Posted by vinnysgrl

i would def if you enjoy hanging out with them.....why not

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well i HOPE you would.....my FH is your BM......