ARE YOU MORE ATTRACTED TO YOUR HUSBAND/FIANCE.....

kmcwed Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:20 PM

ARE YOU MORE ATTRACTED TO YOUR HUSBAND/FIANCE.....

Physically or for his personality, who he is as a person?

You CANT answer by saying BOTH. You must pick one or the other. I'm sure we could all say 'both,' but honestly, one is a stronger attraction than the other, even if only slightly.

So which one is it? PHYSICAL or WHO HE IS AS A PERSON....

Stacey1403 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:21 PM

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Well we were friends for 2 years before anything happened so I will go with who he is as a person

Sassy Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:23 PM

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In the beginning definitely his physical. He was so tall and muscular. Aaaahhhh Me likey

But 6 years later, he is still Ultra-Gorgeous in my eyes, but being gorgeous would not have carried us 6 years. I married him for Who he IS to me.
A wonderful wonderful loving caring generous person.

joeslauren Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:25 PM

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i dont think i could marry someone based more strongly on a physical attraction than anything else, so i would have to say as a person.

kmcwed Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:26 PM

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I guess I should answer my own question... LOL!

I'm more attracted to who he is as a person.

I'm physically attracted to him as well, but it was who he is and how he treats me that made me want to marry him.

butterfly20 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:26 PM

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botH!!!!

Samanthas Mom Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:26 PM

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person

OctBride05 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:26 PM

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who he is as a person.

Nanjoe Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:27 PM

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Who he is as a person. He is a true gentleman with so many outstanding qualities. I never thought I could find a man with so many qualities that I was looking for. I feel very lucky to have found him.

I also think he has a great butt!!!

Anniegrl Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:27 PM

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He's a cutie with a hot bod, but I'm more attracted to his personality (although lately he's really ticking me off! )

jenny2penny Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:29 PM

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person!

kmcwed Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:32 PM

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Butterfly, you broke the rules! You can't say 'both!'

You hafta pick one......c'mon, fess up!

WithThisRing Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:38 PM

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who he is as a person. he is such a warm and loving person. he is strong and sensitive.

he has made me a better person and a stronger person.

50 years from now his looks may change but him as a person will never change

jeannad67 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:39 PM

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person... I wasn not attracted to him at first, until I got to know him!

franksbride Posted: Aug 08, 2003 03:46 PM

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More attracted to who he is as a person...however, it was physical attraction that brought us together...he's like a big teddy bear to me.

dandj Posted: Aug 08, 2003 04:39 PM

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Personality definitely... although it did help that he has awesome blue eyes!

xjulietx Posted: Aug 08, 2003 04:47 PM

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Personality first. We met 5 years ago at which point I wasn't attracted to his looks OR his personality. But as time passed, I realized he was a nice guy and then we got closer and we started shopping together and then he got a new haircut and lost weight and got cuter and I lost weight with him (rollerblading) and well, here we are.

mlp924 Posted: Aug 08, 2003 05:24 PM

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Not that he isn't great eye candy but it's more of who he is as a person!

Wendy Posted: Aug 08, 2003 07:53 PM

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Definately for the person that he is. We met online and talked online and on the phone for more than three months before we met. This was before the day and age of digital cameras and scanners so we never knew what each looked like before we met. I am not even sure if it ever came up in coversations. Maybe but it was more than 7 years ago and I don't remember it. It was his personality that kept things going til we met.

I think it's the best way.

HearzBellz Posted: Aug 08, 2003 08:32 PM

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both! he is a complete package! I was friends with him when he was in his awkward phase, so I was attracted to his personality, but I did not start dating him until after...so it was also his looks (FH & I have known each other for 15 years).