Are you telling everyone the details of your wedding.

Original post by AllJoy

Jul 03, 2007 08:06 AM

Are your relatives and friends asking you all the detais, such as
1) Whats your wedding song?
2) What are your favors?
3) What are your food choices?
4) How are you wearing your hair?
5) Whats your boquet like?
6) let me see a picture of your dress?
7) How long is your veil?

I'm not trying to sound like a snob, but people can you possibly wait until my wedding day? Does anyone else feel this way.

MikeandLisa Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:17 AM

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the worst is when you say, i want to keep it a surprise and ppl get annoyed?? i had that happen a few times... i dotn want to give away my details!

MeNBobs Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:22 AM

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When people asked me and I didn't want them to know I just lied. I Made up a wedding song, made up our flowers I figured it was an acceptable lie. i had a beutiful fake wedding all planned out. If you say it's a surprise they hound you and it's your right to change your mind.

Ericab1980 Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:29 AM

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I'm telling/showing people who ask that arent coming to wedding, like co-workers strangers (you'd be surprised)

My mom feels the need to SHOW everyone everything lol She pissed me off when she showed my aunts the sample CP it's like hello it's a surprise!!

rkl1130 Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:30 AM

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I don't really tell anyone details unless they are not coming or not invited.

jessandjimiswedding Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:38 AM

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haha joyce! i don't tell anyone anything!!! i say 'sorry, it's a secret!!!'

lol...i don't even like telling my bridal party stuff

Mich0621 Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:40 AM

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Couldn't agree more...and seriously, people need to stop asking if they could see my dress...listen to this one...

FMIL wanted to know if I would show her my dress, and then asked if I would show FH the dress before the wedding...this coming from the woman who told me she thought getting a black kitten was bad luck...

MalteseMommy Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:43 AM

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I don't mind some of the questions...but I have had quiet a few people ask me what my dress looks like, how I am doing my hair, etc in front on my FH. I just kind of look at them like..ummm FH is sitting here...I don't want him to have any idea about how I am going to look that day!

enjft Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:45 AM

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I try to shut up but I can't keep anything from you gals!

soon2bmrsp123107 Posted: Jul 03, 2007 10:57 AM

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My mom knows most of what’s going on but even she doesn’t know everything!
Even FH is in the dark about a few things!
I like to keep some things a secret so people are surprised when things happen.
I’m most secretive about my dress….only my parents, MOH and 3 BMs have seen it!
I took a million pics of it and I didn’t email them to anyone.

GettinHutched Posted: Jul 03, 2007 12:39 PM

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Posted by enjft

I try to shut up but I can't keep anything from you gals!

Me too, Eliana!!
I think I've told one too many friends about all my crazy theme stuff...I need to STOP!

Turns out I'm not the only one - FH has shared a bunch of our things- like placecards/table numbers with friends!! He's really surprised me a few times in this wedding process!

drpepper318 Posted: Jul 03, 2007 01:23 PM

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If they ask, I tell them but I don't usually volunteer the info.

portjeffbride Posted: Jul 03, 2007 01:59 PM

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heh, no one cared about those details I've got an interesting bunch of friends and family

Only mom cared about the food, becuase she was worried about making all the guests comfy.... Other than that, no one saw or heard anything until I volunteered the info... and no one asked.

If you don't want to tell them, you can always be evasive and say 'oh, I've got ideas of what my flowers will be.... I'm working it out with the florist....' if they're pushy, walk away

PattyK Posted: Jul 03, 2007 02:29 PM

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I am getting lots of questions and I answer most of them. It doesn't bother me that people ask questions. I get so exicted when I complete a project or I buy something for the wedding that I want to share, but that's just me.

amytee Posted: Jul 03, 2007 02:31 PM

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People don't really bug me that much. I get the 'what colors are you doing' question all the time! i usually just tell them the colors.
I don't reveal too much more though. I just say, 'i'm not sure yet'

Elise&Matt Posted: Jul 03, 2007 02:44 PM

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well aside from my mom and BP only a few have asked and they are family who have had weddings so they are my consultants lo and my crafty go to people Other than that I pretend I haven't made up my mine yet (which is half true most of the time)

kitty1224 Posted: Jul 03, 2007 02:45 PM

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We are keeping most of it a secret.

PapayaChic Posted: Jul 03, 2007 02:53 PM

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Posted by prinses777

I just say... Its a surpise!

ditto
only people that know everything is my fh
my mom
and my MOH which is my sister

Nlynn Posted: Jul 04, 2007 12:01 AM

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Posted by AllJoy

Are your relatives and friends asking you all the detais, such as
1) Whats your wedding song?
2) What are your favors?
3) What are your food choices?
4) How are you wearing your hair?
5) Whats your boquet like?
6) let me see a picture of your dress?
7) How long is your veil?

I'm not trying to sound like a snob, but people can you possibly wait until my wedding day? Does anyone else feel this way.

OH YEAH! I just keep telling them 'You'll find out on August 4th' You might want to add to that list ... 'Who am I sitting with'

diva7531 Posted: Jul 04, 2007 08:49 AM

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Yeah people ask and I just try to be vague or tell them, I don't want to ruin the surprise (In a really nice way) My BP and mom know everything and I mean everything. But the ones who know the most, live on this site!!!!!