I'm very outgoing, somewhat neurotic and high strung. My FH is shy, very calm and easy going. I guess thats why it works between us. If he was another me, I think we'd kill each other. As the saying goes, opposites attract. There is alot that we have in common as far as things that we like to do together, but personalites are definitely different.
iBCraZ131
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I agree!! FH and I are also opposites - it gets us in trouble sometimes cuz we butt heads but it works for us!! I am a dreamer, a little neurotic about things, messy, and not terribly outgoing. FH is down to earth about things, reasonable, neat freak,and very outgoing!!
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WE are oppsisites in many ways...the basics food, music, where to go out, I'd rather and club and he rather a bar I like vacations to relax he likes crazy wild tours. Our values and goals in like are the same and thats whats important...we want a happy life and family all the other stuff is a compromise and not as important.
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we're opposites on a lot....
kam0813
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my FH and i are TOTAL opposites...he likes rap...i'm a rocker chick...he's skinny...i'm round ...he's quiet and doesn't like to speak up...i can be a loud mouth and i can be really boisterous and friendly and energetic and crazy...we're total opposites but we complete each other in the best ways...i love him so much *gush gush gush*
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i'm an outgoing crazy attention whore....my FH is shy and prefers to lay low. i can be emotionally high maintenence, while he's more of the caregiver who doesn't need to be tended to. i'm loud, he's not.
I'm outgoing, neurotic...pretty much like yourself! My FH is quiet and very shy until he gets to know you. Then you can't shut him up and he is really funny! I tell him all the time that I never wanted to get married again until I met him. I think we may have strangled each other in a past life! He's a huge pain in my *** but I love him to death!
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We are opposite in every way possible!
You know what they say...Opposites Attract
AllJoy
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You are FUNNY!!!!!!!!.
Athee07
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total opposites- im the outgoing, stubborn one hes the shy very subtle person
haha i just noticed almost all of our FH's are the calmer ones in the relationship!
April Liane
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we're too much alike ... it's kind of scary. Sometimes it's great... and sometimes it's not!!!
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We're kind of extreme one way or the other. WE agree on a lot of things, but on certain things - we are completely different. I like eating healthy, he could care less. I like going out a lot more than he does. He's also a realist in certain things, where as I like to live in fantasy world. I think we are perfect together. WE balance each other out.
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hey date twin! funny you say b/c me and FH were just talking about this today. we are soooo different that it's weird we even get along let alone get married!! i'm a ***** and he knows it. i'm mean and so insensitive. but still nice, i promise!! LOL!! but he is just carefree and the sweetest person you'll ever meet. he likes to hug, i like to get hugged. i like to be center of attn, he shy's away any chance he can. he's actually freaked out about the wedding b/c a lot of attn will be on him. whatever, it's all about me anyway!!!
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We're complete opposites. I don't really believe in the zodiac and all that, but as far as me being a Libra and him an Aries, which are opposite signs on the chart, it's really true with us. For instance, I'm quite indecisive, and he's always able to make a decision. He's quick to anger, I'm not. We complement eachother's characteristics in almost all cases, so it works.
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we are alot alike in many ways.....thats why we tend to bump heads.
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We are complete opposites. LOL But that's why I love him so much. We compliment each other.
Mandyin2007
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We are completely opposite! It drives me crazy sometimes!
SeptBride70
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actually, i always dated opposites from me except for FH-- we are a lot alike. we have the same goals, values, we feel the same way on a lot of issues-- politically etc. We think the same things are important like family, religion, etc.
we are both very outgoing and easy to talk to... we love to dance and ham it up sometimes but then sometimes we get quiet. it's really nice-- we have a good flow.
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We have a lot of similarities -strong work ethics, family oriented, sarcastic and sometimes dark sense of humors.
But...he is super patient and I'm not. I have a very open mind but he doesn't. He is a saver and I'm a spender. He is a bit of a ham sandwich (loves attention) and I don't. I am already dreading when we get announced for the first time at the wedding .
I guess we blanance each other out really well
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Lil bit of both, definitely more opposite though! The things that we have that are alike are kind of silly so I dont think it really counts for much!
