ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

I feel like I'm beyond the end of my rope. Like, when the rope frays, I'm one of those frayed pieces right now. Life is just ;WLKDFE905U4JGBDFKLJR0-IR5!!!kjh)+bh0-3



grrrr

that is all.

if it makes u feel better, fh and I someone managed to eff up our budget for the wedding, now we are short and i need the mega million numbers bc I have 72 days until the wedding

Im literally on the verge of tears at work, i dont think i want to have a wedding ne more

oh wow, yes, we are in the same boat. my money is due september.

maybe you can take out a personal loan?

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Posted by jhines4684

oh wow, yes, we are in the same boat. my money is due september.

maybe you can take out a personal loan?

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Yes totally- just want to add that if you have a 401k with your job, sometimes they let you take a loan out against it. I had to do that and it helped TONS

it'll get better, don't worry!

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Posted by StaceyWill

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Posted by jhines4684

oh wow, yes, we are in the same boat. my money is due september.

maybe you can take out a personal loan?

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Yes totally- just want to add that if you have a 401k with your job, sometimes they let you take a loan out against it. I had to do that and it helped TONS

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from working in the tax field, borrowing against your 401 k does involve penalties when you do ur taxes next year, but, since you both will be married, your deductions go up.

if you do that, i recommend taking more withholding out of ur paycheck. so you're not killed come April 15th.

Stacey, I tried the 401K thingy but the only thing i qualify for now is if im buying home...yeah ok..not a home, but its like im spending money on a down payment! LOL doesnt that count? huh? no? lol

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Posted by luckycouple05

Stacey, I tried the 401K thingy but the only thing i qualify for now is if im buying home...yeah ok..not a home, but its like im spending money on a down payment! LOL doesnt that count? huh? no? lol

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oh- too bad

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Posted by jhines4684

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Posted by StaceyWill

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Posted by jhines4684

oh wow, yes, we are in the same boat. my money is due september.

maybe you can take out a personal loan?

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Yes totally- just want to add that if you have a 401k with your job, sometimes they let you take a loan out against it. I had to do that and it helped TONS

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from working in the tax field, borrowing against your 401 k does involve penalties when you do ur taxes next year, but, since you both will be married, your deductions go up.

if you do that, i recommend taking more withholding out of ur paycheck. so you're not killed come April 15th.

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uh-oh, I really didn't think in terms of taxes when I did it- I guess I should've- oh well

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Posted by StaceyWill

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Posted by jhines4684

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Posted by StaceyWill

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Posted by jhines4684

oh wow, yes, we are in the same boat. my money is due september.

maybe you can take out a personal loan?

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Yes totally- just want to add that if you have a 401k with your job, sometimes they let you take a loan out against it. I had to do that and it helped TONS

---

from working in the tax field, borrowing against your 401 k does involve penalties when you do ur taxes next year, but, since you both will be married, your deductions go up.

if you do that, i recommend taking more withholding out of ur paycheck. so you're not killed come April 15th.

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uh-oh, I really didn't think in terms of taxes when I did it- I guess I should've- oh well

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let me ask my superiors about it more....I'm not a CPA but an office manager at one and do 1040s for single individuals....

I'll do a post tomorrow about borrowing from 401k's, i believe if you pay it back before the year is up, you only pay a small penalty. don't quote me on that.