arguing as the wedding gets closer

as1inmay Posted: Jan 29, 2005 06:50 PM

arguing as the wedding gets closer

Me and my fh seem to be arguing over little things now that the wedding is getting closer. is this normal?

LuckyMe Posted: Jan 29, 2005 06:52 PM

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I would think the stress could branch out to other things causing arguements as long as it's nothing major I would just blow it off as being overwhelmed right now

cjb88 Posted: Jan 29, 2005 06:56 PM

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COMPLETELY normal!!! IMO

SuzBride Posted: Jan 29, 2005 06:57 PM

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I think it is a bit normal. Me and my FH have already started to bicker a bit more and we just started planning! Mainly over little things like who to cut from the guest list!

It is alot of decisions to make and a lot of money involved so it gets stressful!

Azrael27 Posted: Jan 29, 2005 07:07 PM

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I think it's normal - because my FH and I are going through the same thing....

bluesashbride Posted: Jan 29, 2005 07:39 PM

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we went through a period where $$ stress as we were picking vendors was really causing arguements so yeah i think its totally normal! A LOT of changes goign on!

tracyp Posted: Jan 29, 2005 08:06 PM

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it better me normal!!! we seem to argue about $$! saving is very stressful, but somehow everyone gets it paid for!

May05Bride Posted: Jan 29, 2005 08:56 PM

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I think it would be ABnormal if you were not arguing

julz33 Posted: Jan 29, 2005 09:24 PM

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It is because of stress...totally normal!

traceyd Posted: Jan 29, 2005 09:29 PM

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Posted by May05Bride

I think it would be ABnormal if you were not arguing

I think I'll have to agree with that one-$$ issues always seem to cause stress and arguments!

swags1016 Posted: Jan 29, 2005 09:56 PM

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So normal! I practically locked DH out of our apartment one night. We fought almost everyday for the last month. As long as both of you know that it's coming from the stress and don't take it personally then it will be ok and you will look back at it on your honeymoon and laugh. We did.

Mishu Posted: Jan 29, 2005 10:14 PM

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we have never blickered this much (like little school girls mind you) in our 7 year relationship!!!

i am glad to hear other couples going through the same thing

christy Posted: Jan 29, 2005 10:49 PM

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Sooooooooo normal. Just try to take a step back and remember that it will all work out. Your wedding will be lovely.

JLP Posted: Jan 29, 2005 10:57 PM

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I think it is normal. It better be. We have only 6 weeks to go, if one of us doesn't kill the other over something stupid.

I need a vacation!! Thank God for honeymoons!