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Army guy planning wedding for deployed significant other

82ndmedic Posted:

Army guy planning wedding for deployed significant other

Hello. My name is Will. I am a Long Island native. (Sayville) Have been stationed in Ft. Bragg NC for the last 4 years. My sister turned me onto this site because I am planning my wedding for me and my bride to be.

She is currently serving in Iraq and will be there till around July time frame. We are looking at a mid-September date and that would defiantly not leave us a good time frame to wait till she comes back to start. So I have told her that I will do all the legwork for her while she is gone.

We are going to have the wedding on a beach or beach backdrop (weather depending) We have narrowed it down to a blue/green color scheme. I would love any idea's or experience that anybody can give on good/bad experience with beach style weddings.

I am starting to realize what I have just undertook and want to make sure I get this all right for her. Please help... There is soo much out there for me to learn, I just need a little......OK a lot of guidance.
pb2161 Posted:

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First of all thank you.. and your wife to be for taking care of all of us. God bless you both.


Now.. welcome! There are so many great places on the water on Long Island to get married. I was just talking to a Lands End bride (sayville) who has nothing but amazing things to say.

For all the details and vendors try your best to follow the posts but the 09ers and don't ever hesitate to ask questions. I'm sure any bride on here will do her best to help you give your bride the wedding of her dreams.
82ndmedic Posted:

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I am sooo sorry thought I added this. We are planning on doing our wedding on a North Carolina beach.

Thank you for replying so fast.
pb2161 Posted:

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oh not a problem at all. (I'm a medic halfway through a night tour) While I know nothing about north carolina venues there are still tons of ideas/tips/pics you can collect on this site.

Try the knot or wedding channel to start a basic search for vendors in your area.

82ndmedic Posted:

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That is pretty funny because I am an combat medic. working on my last night of leave in NY.. I am heading back to NC tomorrow but cant sleep as I have had issues sleeping. Weather it's the massive amounts of websites I have been going threw or the fact of I have a new house to go back to (yes I just closed on our first house 3 weeks ago) So I have been this weird happy out of my mind crazy since I went on leave.

pb2161 Posted:

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I know the feeling. It's been a quiet night for me so I'm in full wedding planning freak out mode. Congrats on the house. It must be so comforting to know that you and your FW have a place to call home.

this website can be overwhelming.. esp if you're not having a NY wedding. But there are a ton of great pictures and ideas. Try using the 'search' option and key words like 'beach' 'blue' etc. That should bring back some nice pictures and posts by other brides.
gina409 Posted:

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thank u to u and ur wife for the services u do for our country..welcome to the boards and happy planning we r all here to help
VeggieBride Posted:

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I suggest checking out theknot.com. they have pictures narrowed down by color scheme. this helped me a ton when choosing flowers, cake ideas, etc.

hope that helps! I also love that youre doing this.
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Okay so the water works start... first thank you for what you do. Alot of my friends serve/served and I can tell you that I know personally I am appreciative..

Okay on to the happy things...

So you are planning your wedding...lets see where we can help!
Brat23 Posted:

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Yes Thank You for your dedication to this Country!

Welcome aboard! We can really be a big help. Let me go poking around and see what ideas I can come up with for you!
VeggieBride Posted:

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heres some things i found on a quick google search

http://www.oceanisleinn.com/weddings.html

http://www.emeraldislerealty.com/weddings_events.asp

http://www.whitedoeinn.com/intimate_wedding.htm
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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The last one (beach weddings) contact those people they are AMAZING

[email protected]
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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There are ac ouple of nice places in southpark too but fh wasn't too keen on the 'southpark' name
VeggieBride Posted:

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also...did she pick bridesmaids? Can they give you a hand with this?

Brat23 Posted:

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WWW.***************** has alot of blue and green favors they are coordinated by color

OK lets try this again sophies favors dot com
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Thank you and your FW for your service to our country!!

Dont worry the girls on this site are very helpful and will help guide you!! You are in good hands lol.

Have you started anything yet? If you have not, start with a location for the ceremony and reception and work from there. The other details like flowers, cake, favors, etc. we can definitely help you with. Good luck!!

ETA here are some inspiration boards that fit your theme...











PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Im also guessing friends/family who are in the bridal party may be from different states?

Davids bridal is great for that and Mens warehouse. You can order from any of them in any state and get the same thing! They have really updated their look and have some stunning dresses

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