AS MY DAY GETS CLOSER.....

D's Girl Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:47 PM

AS MY DAY GETS CLOSER.....

I have to say that there is a sudden calm that has taken over me. I am not stressed at all, everything is pretty much done and now it is just waiting.

Any other girls feel as it gets closer, things are getting easier for you?

I have never been a stressful person, this entire process, I did things and checked them off the list one by one. I am telling you girls, it will all get done over time and you just have to put your mind to it.

MattandTricia07 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:49 PM

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This is so nice to hear Bari!! When I think about all of you girls so close to your dates, my heart start to pound faster and faster. I hope I feel it too!!

On another note, I am soo exciteed for your wedding! Cannot wait to see your pics!!

JazzyT Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:50 PM

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Thats great Bari, have you finished your seating? thants my next task and I think when I'm all done with that I will be calm.

rfilipofornow Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:51 PM

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that' soooooo good to hear that you're so relaxed. gives me some hope that i'll be ok closer to the my time!!

can't wait to see pics, Bari!! stay relaxed, ok?!

D's Girl Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:52 PM

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Posted by JazzyT

Thats great Bari, have you finished your seating? thants my next task and I think when I'm all done with that I will be calm.

That is exactly why I am calm now . I was getting a little nervous about doing the seating, but I have to say much easier then I thought it would be. I am telling you, once that is done with it is a HUGE relief off of you.

AeroJenn Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:53 PM

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Thats awesome!
I still have a little over a month to go so im not nearly as close as you are....but at this point, no, im not calm at all Im panicking to get stuff done. But since i'm a lot like you....get things done and out of the way....im sure everything will be finished well before i walk down the aisle. So, I might hit that calm too

NY031978 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:53 PM

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I was so calm...shocked that i was!!! But at the 1 week mark it kicked in!!!

MJDoc12 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:55 PM

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yup, i remember that feeling. it's pretty much an eerie calm....like 'i've done all i can do, now the day needs to GET HERE!'

i agree with Alana--stress kicked in the week of...but by the nite before the eerie calm came back

D's Girl Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:57 PM

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Posted by MJDoc12

yup, i remember that feeling. it's pretty much an eerie calm....like 'i've done all i can do, now the day needs to GET HERE!'

i agree with Alana--stress kicked in the week of...but by the nite before the eerie calm came back

Great!!

It is a eerie calm, you hit the nail on the head with that one

afrodyt2000 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:57 PM

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That's how I've been feeling for the last 2 or 3 weeks. I could be stressing over not bothering to print programs but nope! Just waiting for the day to come.

melbalalala Posted: Apr 23, 2007 04:58 PM

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That totally happened to me. It feels good because everything is pretty much out of your hands!

milana Posted: Apr 23, 2007 05:11 PM

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wow thats amazing! i hope i feel that way before my wedding

chrissyandvin Posted: Apr 23, 2007 05:24 PM

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awhhh Bari I am soo happy you are relaxed girl!! I can't wait for your wedding!! less then 2 weeks away!!!!!!!!

NinaChris07 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 05:35 PM

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my cousin got married in February and said she had that calm that day....

I am not so calm - I have been this entire engagement but with a few days left, I am kind of anxious!!!

werock0709 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 06:20 PM

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I stressed over a few things, and right now I'm calm. In my eyes, I see it as ' The calm before the storm' if you will. I'm sure as I approach the week of, I won't be sooo lax. It'll all be over soo quickly, my stress, and worry wouldn't have been worth it.

SeptBride70 Posted: Apr 23, 2007 06:26 PM

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I'm so glad to hear that Bari... any moments of CALM can be a real lifesaver!! I don't know how I'll be but I'm hoping that happens- any bit of calm I can get will be great.

I guess it's hard because I'm such a worrier.

Well, best of luck! The day is going to be beautiful

GettinHutched Posted: Apr 23, 2007 06:29 PM

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I'm so glad you feel that way! That's the best way to be before the big day- just soak it all in and enjoy it!!

Can't wait to see pics of your big day!!!