like they made the wrong decsion on everything u have choosen??? Im looking around and I see so many dresses that I like better than mine..flowers, limos everything to me feels wrong right now
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yes for a minute i was starting to feel that way about the place where i am having my reception.....but i didnt want the hall thing with the sit down dinner i want a part....
just yesterday i say a purple gown in Brooklyn for $345 and i was pissed since this was my first choice of gowns
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I think thats normal. Its def. happening to me lol. I am second guessing my photographer, tiara, veil, cake topper lol...so many things..but I keep telling myself..Ok, I choose these things for a reason...so Im going to leave it at that ... So its normal for you to feel this way..
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There were many times I thought 'Oh, I bought too fast!' But thenI just had to re-look at my stuff and remember why I fell in love in the first place and I fall in love all over again. You made the right decisions and it will all look beautiful on your special day!!!!
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I wouldnt say I made the wrong decision as far as vendors or anything that I have actually chosen, I think I could have made better $$$ decisions now when I look back but i wouldnt change anything
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oh i do that too!.. i am always going back and forth on something.. mainly i go back and forth on the color of my bridesmaid dresses and the color of my flowers .. not sure if it really is going to look how i want it too.
i just read this post to my mom and i am like 'mom see that happens to other people not just me!'
i just keep telling myself i choose it for a reason .. and stop looking around for other stuff! .
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YES!! Geez, I am a know what I want kinda gal. All of a sudden I am second guessing everything. I don't want to drive DOC crazy b/c I keep rethinking stuff and needing second opinions and FH is like you booked it-it's done!!! He is getting MAD. I can't help it!!
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I had second thoughts about our RH. It's not as well known as a lot of others out there, and it's a little small, but when I went there the other day to do some things, I fell in love with the view and the intimacy of the dining room--the reasons I chose it to begin with.
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Only thing I regret is asking my sister in law to be in the bridal party
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Posted by KRISTYRUSSELL
Only thing I regret is asking my sister in law to be in the bridal party
umh i can just about say the same thing
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i think thats so funny you say this b/c last night i asked FH if maybe we should switch our CP's to something different. And i was convinced my CP's were too modern for my receptoin. Sighhhh....he said im goin nuts already I think everyone goes through this.
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i'm the same way. i second guess everything i do, not even just wedding things. it's probably perfectly natural because you think about getting married your whole life and when it finally comes down to making decisions about stuff, it's so much harder than you originally imagined!!
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Posted by PegaLega
I wouldnt say I made the wrong decision as far as vendors or anything that I have actually chosen, I think I could have made better $$$ decisions now when I look back but i wouldnt change anything
I feel the same way. I am more than happy with most if not all of my vendors. I do wish I was more cautious with money. There are a few wedding related items that I have bought and think...why did I waste X amount of $$$ on personalized hand towels for the RH bathrooms??? Were personalized cocktails napkins really necessary? Don't EVEN get me started on the STD's...total waste.
Every now and then I will see a new gown and think wow that is beautiful but in the end I know at least I think I have made the best decisions I possibly could. With just a little more than three weeks to go..what can ya do?
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Not really wrong, but I think I should have hesitated on some things I bought at the start of my planning. 1) STD's like Britt said, to me just made no sense down the line. I have learned that If people are coming to your Wedding, they are coming and won't change their vacation plans, travel plans, etc.. around you even if you let them know 9 months in advance. 2) Table Camera's, not using them now 3) My shoes, I ran out and bought shoes for $80 a year ago and turned around 2 months ago and bought a different pair. 4) Guest book, I think I came up with 3 different ideas already, bought supplies and still don't know if I want one 5) How can I forget, my DRESS!! Yes I picked one out in like 1/2 hour, Mom paid in full, waiting 8 months for it to come in and I HATED it on me. I think I was just to wraped up in finding the 'one' and so nervous that I did not take my time back then. But, found the dress of my dreams so it worked out.
One vendor I did change was my Officent, did not get that warm fuzzy feeling booked anyway because I felt I needed one pronto and 2 months ago, fired him and hired a new one that is so personal and special to us already.
