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Asking the Groomsmen!?
MsErikaLynn
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:35 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:35 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
How did your FH ask his groomsmen and best man??FH is trying to keep his manliness about him during this whole wedding madness! He still has not asked his groomsmen or best man! There are only 3 of them and it's driving me nuts that he's waiting!
Lguido
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:43 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:43 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
I totally understand you! My fh is doing the same thing..
Soon2BeMrsMango
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:46 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:46 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
We did cigars for the ones who were old enough & chocolate cigars for the younger ones. There are pics in my album
Fashion Bride
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:49 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:49 AM
Re: Asking the Groomsmen!?
We gave them t-shirts (in album) during the Engagment party that said groomsman on them
simba301
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:52 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:52 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
FH did the same thing. He's still only asked 2 out of 3 GM and we're getting married in 7 months!
Soon2BeMrsPy
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:59 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:59 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
FH didn't do anything fancy. He went out to dinner with them and asked them!
GoingToBoyle
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:00 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:00 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
We got engaged in Disney so while we were there we went to Germany in Epcot and got the guys all engraved beer mugs.
Soon2BeMrsPy
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:01 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:01 AM
Re: Asking the Groomsmen!?
Posted by GoingToBoyle
We got engaged in Disney so while we were there we went to Germany in Epcot and got the guys all engraved beer mugs.
Brunettelizzie29
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:11 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:11 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
We got little bottles of liquor and I printed a wanted sign and attached it, and asked them at our engagement dinner (pics in album)
cets1290
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:26 AM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:26 AM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
Its funny that this came up, because just last weekend I wanted to kill my FH about this! He mentioned it to his best man and 2 of his groomsmen, but didn't tell the rest because he just figured they 'assumed.' My brother was home for the weekend and had NO IDEA he was in the bridal party! My sister brought up some wedding stuff and my brother was like 'i don't think I'm a groomsman he didn't ask me' and my sister and I were like 'omg yes you are he never told you?!?!'.... my brother has known him for like 6 years and they are good friends, but he just figured he wasn't in it lol. I asked my FH to tell everyone else, so he sent them a message on FB (how personal!!!!)
Chaz
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 11:28 AM+
Asking the Groomsmen!?
FH texted. He's a simple man :)
Alyssa M
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 12:25 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 12:25 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
FH just asked his best friend to be BM two nights ago. We're getting married in 5 1/2 months! He asked him over beers
guitarstikibars
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 04:14 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 04:14 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
FH is doing the same thing ... but I guess it's OK since we don't have a wedding date yet. BUT - I already asked all my girls!
MrsDtoBe
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 04:25 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 04:25 PM
Re: Asking the Groomsmen!?
Haha my FH hasn't asked anyone except my brother and his best man yet. I figure he'll probably wait until it's time for them to get measured and then drop the bomb
Angie2014
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 09:36 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 09:36 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
Haha I had to convince FH a LOT to ask his groomsmen. He asked his best friend whom he's known since they were four to be his best man about two-three weeks after we got engaged. He asked the other two groomsmen about 3-4 months after we were engaged. He wanted to give it more time, but I insisted. Good thing I did, coz one of the guys was planning to buy a suit for our wedding lol. FH just asked each of the guys individually over dinner and/or drinks.
katielynn
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 09:49 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 09:49 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
We did everything at our engagement party. We got the guys engraved pilsner glasses.
larlynn
Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:36 PM+

Posted: Aug 15, 2013 10:36 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
FH just called em, which actually is formal for him......he usually texts or emails!
MsErikaLynn
Posted: Aug 18, 2013 03:44 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2013 03:44 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
haha ok good. so I'm getting on FH this weekend to text/call or drink in honor of asking his GM l
pamelitz17
Posted: Aug 18, 2013 06:37 PM+

Posted: Aug 18, 2013 06:37 PM
Asking the Groomsmen!?
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