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Asking your Bridesmaids??????HELP NEED CREATIVE PEOPLE

FutureMrsGK Posted:

Asking your Bridesmaids??????HELP NEED CREATIVE PEOPLE

Ok SO here's the deal...... I want to ask some girls to be bridesmaids in our wedding but dont know how. I want to do something really creative but I cant think of anything....I dont really want to just come out and ask.....Anyone have any good ideas? Thanks!!!! HELP!!!!!!

I already asked the flower girl I thought of something creative for that.....I went to Build a Bear and made a flower girl bear and the recording was me asking her to be my flower girl. It was adorable....The bear even had a basket with fake rose petals in it!
Shmar Posted:

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I've heard of people doing scrapbooks of how they know their BM, for example for a cousin there would be your life together growing up.

A firend of mine also did a poem.

I just asked them because I was so excited, I couldn't wait.

I regret it though, so totally do something special.

Good Luck.

You could also make your own cards saying will you be my bridesmaid. And give a little gift such as a BM t shirt. I was going to give a tank with their monogram on it and the word BM underneath
AMJA Posted:

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Honestly I never even thought of doing something creative for asking. I think it's honor to be in anyones bridal party, and that's special alone..so I wouldn't rack your brain out.
The flower girl idea was sooo cute!

But giving a tee that says Bridesmaid, or a 'will you be my bridesmaid?' card is cute too.

donegal419 Posted:

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I did a Bridesmaid card... the dress on the front was navy, which is the color of their dresses. i then stole a poem i found on LIW and put that on the inside.

and then i bought copies of the book Lilly's big Day by kevin Henkes, a popular children's author. I love his books (I am a teacher) and this one was about a little girl who wants to be a part of her teachers' wedding.... so i got them all a copy of that and wrote a message in the front asking them to be in my wedding... they loved it.. .and my flower girl went CRAZY with it! she loved it!

HTH. . .
Baxter1 Posted:

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We gave out special presents at our engagment party to our entire wedding party , to ask them.

I saw some great bridesmaid's cards on paperstyle.com.



RudysMom Posted:

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I made photo albums on snapfish.com and wrote a poem specifically for each bridesmaid which was printed under the photos. They loved them! Everyone cried!

FutureMrsGK Posted:

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Posted by donegal419

I did a Bridesmaid card... the dress on the front was navy, which is the color of their dresses. i then stole a poem i found on LIW and put that on the inside.

and then i bought copies of the book Lilly's big Day by kevin Henkes, a popular children's author. I love his books (I am a teacher) and this one was about a little girl who wants to be a part of her teachers' wedding.... so i got them all a copy of that and wrote a message in the front asking them to be in my wedding... they loved it.. .and my flower girl went CRAZY with it! she loved it!

HTH. . .



Wow I really like that shirt idea and can i have the poem if you dont mind????? Any more ideas, keep them coming!!!!
qtdimps23 Posted:

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i bought dual sided picture frames. on one side i had a pic of me and that girl and on the other side i personally wrote poems that related to each girl. it was great. i made everyone laugh or cry! and i did one for the moms and my grandma.

FM me if you want more details.
eelharas4700 Posted:

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i did the will you be my bm cards.....but there is one thing i loved.......sending flowers to your bm and the card can read: 'these flowers are a symbol of the bok i'd like you to carry as my bridesmaid' i thought that was a cute idea.

donegal419 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsGK

Wow I really like that shirt idea and can i have the poem if you dont mind????? Any more ideas, keep them coming!!!!




Do a search on LIW, type in bridesmaid poem. it should come up!
jenn122397 Posted:

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i just tried posting my pics and it deleted my whole post - my books that i gave to my BM are in my album FM me if you want to know how i made them

my friend (dana523) asked us with books she made on kodak.com her pics are in her album

i also was given a picture frame by another friend with a poem asking me to be in her BP

some other ideas i have heard of are photo cube

i asked my sister by giving her a bracelet

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