ATTACK OF THE UNWANTED WEDDING GUEST! **UPDATE!!** Read my new reply!
Original post by sweetdoublenn
Do you remember the HS classmate that was leaving me comments on my myspace page inviting herself to my wedding?? Well she is baaacccckkkkkk. My friend e-mailed me with the next comment..Geez Louise. On Saturday I had posted that I had an awesome time at my shower and now this is the comment she leaves...
I never got the invite to the wedding yet ?? I see you had a bridal shower , hope it was special and nice. So let me know what is going on ? I can't wait to see you on your wedding day looking like a princess. Love Kimberly
W.T.F.????? We are not friends!!! We were in HS..JUST HIGHSCHOOL!!! We don't hang out!! I feel like leaving her a comment and go 'YOU ARE NOT INVITED! STOP INVITING YOURSELF TO MY WEDDING!!!'
Should I do it??
sweetdoublenn
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I wrote her!!!!! Hopefully there will be no more e-mails or comments. I don't care if it sounded harsh. I think I needed to be firm to get my point across.. this is what I wrote...
My invitations have already gone out. My wedding is only for close friends and Family. Stop leaving me comments...I think it's rude that you are inviting yourself to my wedding...
Fh thinks maybe she may be my ex best friend's spy..I seriously doubt that but stranger things have happaned!
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sounds like single white female to me
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ok that's weird... of friend of mine had a similar situation at her wedding- but not quite as persistent as this girl. You don't want to make her feel awkward or embarrassed. I would just politely say 'Listen, we have limited seating and I wasn't able to invite everyone to the wedding reception. we're keeping it on the smaller side- just close friends and family. I know you and I used to be close back in high school, but we haven't been for years. I don't want to hurt your feelings- it's nothing personal... I hope you are not mad at me and we can still stay in touch.' I would even email her to avoid the awkward conversation!
EDIT- nevermind i just read that you already wrote her!
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good im glad you emailed her!
sweetdoublenn
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Hopefully she will get the point....we shall see tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted by sweetdoublenn
Hopefully she will get the point....we shall see tomorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*fingers and toes crossed*
But I think she will get the point now - especially since you took the time to remind her how rude it is to invite yourself to someone's wedding
Too bad - she needed to 'hear' it.
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So I wrote her last night as you know..SHE IS CRAZY!!!! She sent me this long e-mail and claims I invited her and asked for her address and she thinks she has the e-mail to prove it? Why save an e-mail? I probably wrote her about something and she's this crazy she would alter the e-mail...take a look what she wrote...she must of said 'sorry' 10000 times! I also blocked the pyscho and deleted her!!!! GEEZ!!!
Jenn
YOUR WEDDING
I was NOT inviting myself you said I was invited when I received an e-mail from you and requested my address don't you remember. I also got a my space e-mail from you asking me to come if I re-call. I'm sure I have the my space e-mail to prove it to you as well. I did not and never would do such a thing to a person. I'm sorry you think that. Why would you take my address if I was not invited ... That the way I took it and if I'm correct your e-mail said need address for my wedding invites, So I moved and sent you my new one. You never replied back saying I can only invite family and close friends and sorry you could not invite me like you said you were. I mean I totaly understand that. So sorry to upset you and sorry I'm not your close friend but I wish you to have a wonderful wedding and hope it is special as you dreamed to be. I really meant no harm but then you should not e-mailed me asking my address as I assume I was invited. That the way most people would take it and consider the message. I mean you should of not told me I was invited. I was hoping to come share your specail day and would of loved to see you. I know I'm not welcomed now. I understand. No harm feelings, I think your a great person and wish you and Charlie all the best, best wishes and good luck and have a great wedding.
I'm still sorry , I feel so bad. I really meant no harm,
Please forgive me and I wish you the best , your a wonderful person and will never for get the times we had during the school days. You were such a sweet person and still are. I'm soooooo sorry to bother you and I feel so bad that I assume I was invited. Promise not to bother you no more ! Kimberly
She can't write can she?? She thought we were close friends!!! WTH???????
sweetdoublenn
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Bumping this incase you missed the latest from this pyscho!!!!!
Sharron70
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Shame on you Jennifer! *wags finger at you*
Why on earth would you email her for her address if she wasn' t invited?!
That girl is nuttier than Planters Party Mix!
sweetdoublenn
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LOL...The thing is I NEVER e-mailed her!!! The girl is clearly nuts-O!!!!!
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wow thats really messed up!
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If you did send said e-mail...why would she need to bring it up 3 or 4 times in the email back to you??? Also what's with the 'no harm feelings'. Oh well at least it's over and done with and you don't have to deal with it anymore.
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shes a total wack-a-doo!!! good luck b/c i would have cussed her out already
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wow--if you seriously never emailed her--she's quite delusional
at least its done now and you don't have to worry about her.
sweetdoublenn
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I never e-mailed her!! It's total BS!!! She can't spell I think she was trying to get me to say..'Oh I did...ok!'...What a Wacko!!!!
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wow, at least you got an apology 1000x...the girl that did it to me told she was disappointed by the news I had just told her. I was like WHY I haven't spoken to you in 2 years!!!!! This girl sounds pretty delusional! but see now it's done and over with!
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Yikes! Not only is she delusional and obsessive, she also has horrific grammar! Send that crazy b!tch back to school!
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What blows my mind is . . .
is she making it up to cover her f-up or is she truly THAT delusional?
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that's crazy!!! i agree with the other girls.. i would just say you are having a small intimate wedding and had to cut lots of people. Hopefully she will finally get the hint then!! good luck!!!
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Posted by sweetdoublenn
Do you remember the HS classmate that was leaving me comments on my myspace page inviting herself to my wedding?? Well she is baaacccckkkkkk. My friend e-mailed me with the next comment..Geez Louise. On Saturday I had posted that I had an awesome time at my shower and now this is the comment she leaves...
I never got the invite to the wedding yet ?? I see you had a bridal shower , hope it was special and nice. So let me know what is going on ? I can't wait to see you on your wedding day looking like a princess. Love Kimberly
W.T.F.????? We are not friends!!! We were in HS..JUST HIGHSCHOOL!!! We don't hang out!! I feel like leaving her a comment and go 'YOU ARE NOT INVITED! STOP INVITING YOURSELF TO MY WEDDING!!!'
Should I do it??
dont worry thats normal..ppl love to invite themselves for some reason..i got ppl doin that too, ppl that i didnt talk in years ..lol jst ignore her but if she insist just tell her that u have limite space and u only inviting family ...good luck
