ATTACK OF THE UNWANTED WEDDING GUEST! UPDATE!! Read my new reply!

Original post by sweetdoublenn

Jul 28, 2008 12:25 PM

Do you remember the HS classmate that was leaving me comments on my myspace page inviting herself to my wedding?? Well she is
baaacccckkkkkk. My friend e-mailed me with the next comment..Geez Louise. On Saturday I had posted that I had an awesome time at my shower and now this is the comment she leaves...

I never got the invite to the wedding yet ?? I see you had a bridal shower , hope it was special and nice.
So let me know what is going on ?
I can't wait to see you on your wedding day looking like a princess.
Love Kimberly

W.T.F.????? We are not friends!!! We were in HS..JUST HIGHSCHOOL!!! We don't hang out!! I feel like leaving her a comment and go
'YOU ARE NOT INVITED! STOP INVITING YOURSELF TO MY WEDDING!!!'

Should I do it??

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:08 PM

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Yes, I think there is a way! I think she is so stupide that she wouldn't get it that I blocked her!!!!

lucky1010 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:09 PM

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Posted by sweetdoublenn

Posted by Sharron70

Posted by Karen9508

just write to her, listen im raelly sorry, but im having a small intimate wedding with just family. ut feel free to come see me at the chruch or whatever!

Seriously? I don't think she'd even want her at the church. She's very presumptuous, and very psycho if you ask me.

She is CRAZY with a capital C!!!! Thank god she has no idea where my church is or where the RH is!!!! And she doesn't know my wedding website!...Whewww!!!!!! I wonder what comment she is gonna leave next! I can't wait to tell my sister later!!! She's a real wackado!!! I truly think she has no friends and she must think I am her only friend!!....STRANGE!!!!

Just write her back telling her you are only having family at the wedding. If you aren't honest, she's going to keep harassing you. The girls does sound like shes nuts though...

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:20 PM

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She is clearly is crazy!!!! I don't know why she is so obsessed with me!!!!! She is probably wondering why she wasn't invited to my shower that was on Saturday!...Hellooooo!!!!!!

I am gonna write her and tell her that it's just close friends and Family...something tells me she still won't get it!!!...LOL

Maria31 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:35 PM

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Ok she is clearly a psycho. Tell her THAT SHES NOT INVITED! That's the only way to get her away! I would have told her the first time she sent a weird message, but now this is getting out of hand! lol

LeeLee111 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:37 PM

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LOL...you have a stalker!!

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:39 PM

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double post

yelley77 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:40 PM

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you should do it!!!

I'm sorry, but you are not invited.

love,
me

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:41 PM

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OMG LOL

At this point, I would just tell her you cant expend your guest list at this point. Let her down easy, but you have to let her know shes not invited.

pa56 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:42 PM

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either delete her as a friend from your myspace page or respond saying 'thansk for the well wishes but we're having a small wedding and keeping the guestlist at a minimum'

ttw910 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:43 PM

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Posted by wifetobe

Nahhh.. I just wouldn't respond if you don't really care about the girl.

If you want to squash it then just say. Im sorry but we are having a small wedding with just family and close friends but it was really nice to hear from you.

I agree!

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:47 PM

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Posted by wundmoretime

Posted by wifetobe

Nahhh.. I just wouldn't respond if you don't really care about the girl.

If you want to squash it then just say. Im sorry but we are having a small wedding with just family and close friends but it was really nice to hear from you.

I think you should say it as above, it puts it perfectly but gently

Yes, do this. But privately message her, do not make it a public comment. You don't want to embarrass her.

And I wouldn't invite her to the church - some people are those 'give an inch, take a mile' kind of people and she seems like one of them. She might just crash the reception if you even hint at the fact that you wished she was there, or want her to be at the ceremony, etc.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:47 PM

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Yeah a big and unwanted stalker...I am gonna write her and tell her she is not invited!!! If I get one more from her..I am reporting her!!..HA!!! Maybe she will get a clue...some how I don't think that is possible!!!

GinaZ Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:54 PM

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ummm thats weird!! I guess you should send her a message (not a comment) that says although you would love to see her, you will only be having family attend the wedding as you are on a tight budget. Money is always an awkward wayto end the convo. LOL. Goodluck!

Lisafer1973 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 03:09 PM

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OMG she is psycho!

If it is bothering you that much I would just tell her that your wedding is for family and close friends as it is very expensive and you had to draw the line somewhere. If you really don’t like her that you can throw in, one day when if you ever get married you will understand.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 03:10 PM

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Did I say comment? I meant message!!!! Sry!! Hopefully she will go away after this!! The thing is it wouldn't be nice to see her!!!!! I'd run far away!!!

DNicholes Posted: Jul 28, 2008 03:14 PM

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from an 07er.....I had this happen to me, I was friends with this girl in college and she basically was doing the same things as this girl is currently doing to you, I finally had to send her a message letting her know that I was keeping my wedding smaller with only my close friends and family but that if she wanted to plan a reunion with some old college friends I would be more then happy to get together.

because basically she was using my wedding as a reunion for herself. Meanwhile after her son was born, I tried to stay in touch with her etc. etc and she's the one that fell off the face of the earth until she found out I was getting married. It's SO weird that people do this, i would NEVER EVER think of doing something like that.

But to make it stop, I would gently let her down.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 03:29 PM

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Posted by DNicholes

from an 07er.....I had this happen to me, I was friends with this girl in college and she basically was doing the same things as this girl is currently doing to you, I finally had to send her a message letting her know that I was keeping my wedding smaller with only my close friends and family but that if she wanted to plan a reunion with some old college friends I would be more then happy to get together.

because basically she was using my wedding as a reunion for herself. Meanwhile after her son was born, I tried to stay in touch with her etc. etc and she's the one that fell off the face of the earth until she found out I was getting married. It's SO weird that people do this, i would NEVER EVER think of doing something like that.

But to make it stop, I would gently let her down.

I plan to do that!!! If she claims we are so close then how come i wasn't invited to her wedding..or any of her children's parties!!! For some strange reason she just wants to come to the wedding...she has NEVER even met Charlie!!!!..WEIRDO!!!!