ATTACK OF THE UNWANTED WEDDING GUEST! UPDATE!! Read my new reply!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:25 PM

ATTACK OF THE UNWANTED WEDDING GUEST! UPDATE!! Read my new reply!

Do you remember the HS classmate that was leaving me comments on my myspace page inviting herself to my wedding?? Well she is
baaacccckkkkkk. My friend e-mailed me with the next comment..Geez Louise. On Saturday I had posted that I had an awesome time at my shower and now this is the comment she leaves...

I never got the invite to the wedding yet ?? I see you had a bridal shower , hope it was special and nice.
So let me know what is going on ?
I can't wait to see you on your wedding day looking like a princess.
Love Kimberly

W.T.F.????? We are not friends!!! We were in HS..JUST HIGHSCHOOL!!! We don't hang out!! I feel like leaving her a comment and go
'YOU ARE NOT INVITED! STOP INVITING YOURSELF TO MY WEDDING!!!'

Should I do it??

MrsJ08 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:28 PM

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lol omg shes crazy!!!

wifetobe Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:30 PM

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Nahhh.. I just wouldn't respond if you don't really care about the girl.

If you want to squash it then just say. Im sorry but we are having a small wedding with just family and close friends but it was really nice to hear from you.

stephlovesseyi Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:31 PM

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Sorry to crash but

YES!!! But I would tell her something like, we are just having close friends and family at our wedding. We're trying to keep it intimate. Sorry. She sounds a little crazy so I would not tell her off cause it may turn into something really ugly!

She has some nerve!!!!

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:31 PM

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I think it's crazy of her to leave you comments like that!! I would message her and tell her due to guest list limitations, you aren't inviting too many friends. I had to do that with some ppl and they were pretty cool about it.

Good Luck!

lillprincess54 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:31 PM

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maybe you can just shoot her a message on myspace,t elling her that your guest list is out of control and due to budget you just cant invite any more people and had to draw the line somewhere on the guest list

Bridey Bride Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:32 PM

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wow thats crazy!

ItalianBride428 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:32 PM

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OK...someones needs a clue...and therapy!

AMGBride2008 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:32 PM

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I had something similar happen to me... I just wrote her an email/message saying that I wish I was able to invite her but we're really limited in who we can invite so we're just leaving it to family members and a few close friends. I thanked her for being so supportive and I was sorry I couldn't include her. I haven't heard about it or from her since.

Good luck!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:36 PM

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She is crazy!!!! She needs to be locked up in a room with padded walls!!! I don't understand why she is so obssessed with my wedding!!! If I don't address it now..as the wedding gets closer she will send me another comment!

I mean seriously...we don't hang out..and she hasn't invitied me to anything!!! I would really want to know why she wants to come so bad! !! You would think she would get the picture when I don't respond to her!...

I think she wants to go Single White Female on me!

Sharron70 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:53 PM

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Oh for the love of god - delete her from your friends list already!!!!!!

You KNOW she's just gonna show up at the church!!!!

DELETE DELETE DELETE DELETE

lucky1010 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:55 PM

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just write to her, listen im raelly sorry, but im having a small intimate wedding with just family. ut feel free to come see me at the chruch or whatever!

hannahshim Posted: Jul 28, 2008 12:56 PM

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ughhh how annoying!!

I would approach her in a nicer way

i'll be like I'm sorry were going over our max and were at the point where we need to cut the list down..

wundmoretime Posted: Jul 28, 2008 01:00 PM

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Posted by wifetobe

Nahhh.. I just wouldn't respond if you don't really care about the girl.

If you want to squash it then just say. Im sorry but we are having a small wedding with just family and close friends but it was really nice to hear from you.

I think you should say it as above, it puts it perfectly but gently

Sharron70 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 01:00 PM

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Posted by Karen9508

just write to her, listen im raelly sorry, but im having a small intimate wedding with just family. ut feel free to come see me at the chruch or whatever!

Seriously? I don't think she'd even want her at the church. She's very presumptuous, and very psycho if you ask me.

Kerin2804 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 01:05 PM

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What is with people ? I would respond back and simply say that the invites already went out and you had a limited mount of people...sorry.

Bride908 Posted: Jul 28, 2008 01:16 PM

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hahaha shes a wack-O. Tell her you kept the party small and if she wants to see you in your dress that much give her the ceremony info

FinallyEngaged Posted: Jul 28, 2008 01:18 PM

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That is nuts!!! I love when people invite themselves to my wedding!!!!!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 28, 2008 02:05 PM

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Posted by Sharron70

Posted by Karen9508

just write to her, listen im raelly sorry, but im having a small intimate wedding with just family. ut feel free to come see me at the chruch or whatever!

Seriously? I don't think she'd even want her at the church. She's very presumptuous, and very psycho if you ask me.

She is CRAZY with a capital C!!!! Thank god she has no idea where my church is or where the RH is!!!! And she doesn't know my wedding website!...Whewww!!!!!! I wonder what comment she is gonna leave next! I can't wait to tell my sister later!!! She's a real wackado!!! I truly think she has no friends and she must think I am her only friend!!....STRANGE!!!!