AUGH!!!

Dani777 Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:30 PM

AUGH!!!

Figured to save drama from lurkers other then my BP I'll take this down... Getting more views that comments...so yeah... lol

mlcvln129 Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:44 PM

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They also have to keep in mind that a lot of the out of staters won't come to the bridal shower because they're waiting until the big day to come here. Just because they're inviting 65 or so now off of your wedding invite list doesn't mean that all 65 will go to your bridal shower! They need to stop stressing--they have to remember that it's proper etiquette to invite EVERY important woman off of the wedding list.

9509Bride Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:46 PM

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It is your day and you should have the shower you want PERIOD. If I were you, I would make it clear how much you appreciate all the hard work and effort that is going into planning the shower BUT simply ask if it can be moved to your FH's aunts house so that it will be less of a financial burden AND so that have more flexibility with the guest list! I am unsure if deposits have been paid etc...so hopefully this is still an option.

Dont stress love! this should be the best time of your life. To me it all appears to be logistical problems. Things WILL work themselves out! My only caution is to be sure tread lightly with the BP & co. you don't want them to start to feel unappreciated or like you are being a Bridezilla. Your opinion should matter but remember many of your fam and friends are contributing thier time, money and effort because they love you! remember that ok!

Keep us posted ....

Dani777 Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:46 PM

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Dani777 Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:50 PM

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Aww thanks. No, my entire BP knows how much I appreciate everything that they are doing. They are wonderful girls and I thank them just about each and every chance that I can. I send them emails and I'll include that I appreciate everything they are doing. I'll text them radomly that it's soo amazing how great they are. . I made sure to thank my Momone more time, give her a hug and kiss and told her I loved her before she left for the weekend. Thanks again though...

elysemichelle Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:53 PM

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dont stress too much Dani!!! U r sooooo not wrong!!!!!!!! u did nothg wrong dont let anyone else make u feel like u r! its UR WEDDING!!!

9509Bride Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:55 PM

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Moms ........cant live with them and what would any of us do without them!

Quick Story ....my mom totally misconstrued info she received from the manager where I booked a block of my OOT rooms. She calls me and gets me all upset andhad me thinking that my block of rooms weren't really secured! . I immediately hang up and speed dial the manager. Turns out my mom misunderstood what she said and everything was fine!

Moms gotta love em!

Dani777 Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:56 PM

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Posted by elysemichelle

dont stress too much Dani!!! U r sooooo not wrong!!!!!!!! u did nothg wrong dont let anyone else make u feel like u r! its UR WEDDING!!!

Awww..thanks.

I'm prolly gonna take this down b4 I leave in a little bit... just needed to get it out and make sure that I really wasn't in fact doing something horrible...

Dani777 Posted: Jan 23, 2009 06:57 PM

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Posted by 9509Bride

Moms ........cant live with them and what would any of us do without them!

Quick Story ....my mom totally misconstrued info she received from the manager where I booked a block of my OOT rooms. She calls me and gets me all upset andhad me thinking that my block of rooms weren't really secured! . I immediately hang up and speed dial the manager. Turns out my mom misunderstood what she said and everything was fine!

Moms gotta love em!

Oh My!!! I would have been freaking as well LOL.

It's just that I'm doing EVERYTHING possible to cut corners...so hearing that I'm forcing people to 'waste' their money sorta hits the spot on me...